Do not snitch on her - if your girlfriend is smoking right now and she’s friend with the pit head girl, snitching would just make your situation a hundred times worse. If your girlfriend is smoking right now and you find a way to make her stop, she’s still going to have the urge to smoke since it wasn’t her choice to stop, it would be yours. Let her stop on her own, trust her to do that, let her have some space for a bit before engaging with her again, just let the situation breathe and let yourself and your girlfriend have some time to think about it. Space gives clarity, and with clarity, spats like this usually get ironed out. I’ve had lots of relationship troubles with multiple long term partners, and it usually gets worked ott it, user. Hang in there, good luck
I moved out of my place I had with my gf of 4 years...
Yeah that’s what I was worried about. As much as I dislike the roomate, I don’t want my gf getting into trouble. I’d have to like find a way to only get the roomate in trouble and even then that’s hard and also unethical
She and I were amazing living together honestly, it was me who fucked it up
I read this about 5 times till I got it lmao, thanks for the laugh dude
Very good point user, thank you. They’re not really friends, but my gf needs her for rides to and from work. But still, the roomate is just so man hating and even though she has a boyfriend, she’s also bi so she basically does everything possible to not seem like a basic white girl. But you’re right, if it’s her choice to stop then she may actually stick to it. I also get scared with the whole corona thing though because apparently smoking can open you up to it. But anyway thank you and I’m sorry about your relationship troubles in the past. This is our first time ever having distance. I heard that no contact can be helpful and I told her that if she’d like to not have to feel like she has to let me know she’s safe after getting rides, it’s okay. But she doesn’t acknowledge it and has still texted me letting me know where she is. I wanna give her space and distance but it’s hard. I have some hope, and I’m seeing a therapist today, but fuck, the suspense is killing me not knowing about the future. I’ve always been hyper confident and for the first time I actually hate myself for hurting her so much and destroying what we had. So that’s also why I wanna kill myself
> I moved out of my place I had with my gf of 4 years. She doesn’t know what she wants yet but there’s a chance we will get back together.
no there isn't
>the other roomate
Step 1
Fuck him in the ass.
Step 2
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Step 3
Eat the girl.
PROFIT
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If this is true, then I’m gonna kill myself. No point in living and having kids with anyone else but her.
They’re both girls but I’ll think about it
> If this is true, then I’m gonna kill myself. No point in living and having kids with anyone else but her
so you two are drifting apart because you're a drama queen, got it
Share some pic of that " roomate "
No it’s because I hurt her, and I’m thinking that I might be better off dead to save them anymore chaos.
just man the fuck up, she's not the only girl in the world no matter how much you think she is, there are plenty of bitches out there, no reason to off yourself over only one of them, king
The more you're attached to her, the more she'll drift away, so save yourself the trouble and move on