Have you guys ever met an actual watamote/hikki type girl that struggles in getting into relationships...

how about (can you please just tell me how you feel? i want to understand you better and make you happy) is that better? i'm not sure if i should send it now or tommorow i just want her to read it
last thing i said is are you just not feeling talkative or are you alright?

well she added me in a thread where i was looking for a gf so i'm not sure. i don't believe i have any small dealbreakers and wouldn't dating like slow count for weeding that stuff out? i believe people can adapt to each other.