My husband is bored and depressed all the time...

I think realistically if I did this (have sex every time he wants) I'd get ignored like all the other times I'm ignored after sex.
I also find it hard to have non-painful sex when he ignores me beforehand, which he like always does.
Last time we had sex I got myself wet by imagining that my husband was a loser nerd that I was doing a huge favor for. The rapey aspect of it got me wet. I'd rather be turned on by like actual enthusiasm for my husband.

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