How do I get a gf? normies online tell me to talk to girls in public...

Wasnt intended to be defeatist, but to not stress it as a variable for any truly socially inexperienced robots.
>Its like in gaming
Depends on the feedback loops of the particular game as afk, dropping, or playing to lose could be better, but I'm just being pedantic.

Communicate that via text. Just tell her that you have difficulty communicating in a face-to-face setting sometimes and you're not being terse. Communication goes a long way, my dude.

>>I'm on the autistic spectrum
>Who isn't?
Majority of the human population.

>I got all mine from dating sites infinite radius. Also some from foreign social networks e.g. qq is China's skype. You can seed the search with language exchange.
Will look into that. What do you think about sites/apps like Hello Talk or Interpals?
>You can instead wave, or say "Hi how are you", or any other "inviting/welcoming" signal that is comfortable for you to replace smiling.
None of these sound comfortable, so I guess I'll just pick one at random.

Thanks for all the advice so far.

I did mention that sometimes I get nervous, she just said something like don't be nervous so I left it at that. I will be seeing her tomorrow and hope it goes well but am doubtful.

If you find out, let me know. If a woman ever has been interested in it I've never noticed and I don't want to make a move on someone who hasn't expressed interest in me.

>I don't want to make a move on someone who hasn't expressed interest in me.
from what ive read, that's exactly what the women are thinking so men to slowly explore. never done it, just what ive read

I'm on the autistic spectrum too, pretty much all of my friends are maths grads so they're all somewhere on the spectrum. It makes things a bit harder, but I don't have a problem with women when I just tell them that I'm trash at picking up signals, and they have to be blunt and upfront about things they say to me. Obviously you need to be able to take that blunt responses you get, because if you start punishing them for being honest to you, they'll stop doing that and you'll have fucked yourself over completely.

>pic
bullshit to the max

>humor
just means laughs at MY humor and is a bare minimum, not a multiplier that could save bad looks. according to the formula a woman would be attractive by having lots of intelligence and humor. this is simply not true. 1/10 looks TIMES (int + hum) would turn into 7 if int and hum sum up to 7 which shouldn't be that hard. the person who made this doesn't understand basic math or wants to deceive women about what men find attractive.

>1/10 looks TIMES (int + hum) would turn into 7 if int and hum sum up to 7 which shouldn't be that hard. the person who made this doesn't understand basic math
The variables are in the [0;1] range.

I do have friends, but we have a very one-to-one relationship. I don't know their friends and my friends don't know each other. It's just that usually the friends of my friends don't interest me that much. Maybe that's the problem.