>If there is something dreadfully wrong with you that makes no woman like you you probably already know what it is and haven't mentioned it. I'm on the autistic spectrum, but like you said, the numbers don't help.
>OkCupid? Bumble? meetup.com (for activites)? Expand radius and go for ldr? There's literally nobody in my vicinity (50 miles) on OKCupid. Haven't tried Bumble, but given OKCupid results, I wouldn't be hopeful. The nearest meetup is more than 50 miles away, and it's for some software development stuff. >Expand radius and go for ldr? Where do I look for LDRs? I've been chatting with women from r9k, but they eventually ghost.
>The reason to smile is _her_, the one you are looking at. :) Believe me, this is harder than it seems, at least for me.
I'll try going to a coffee shop this week. Also, do you have any throwaway email to ask you for more ideas after this thread gets archived?
Jose Peterson
This exactly. I'll see them check me out, or take pics of me at the gym, but they won't fucking talk to me like a normal human being even when I initiate conversation and give them obvious discussion points.
Nicholas Murphy
Yeah Yas Forums has a heavy "crabs in a bucket" mentality, where nearly no-one is happy and they don't want others to be either. If you can leave this place, I'd heavily advise it, any good advice you can find here can be found elsewhere with a lot less shit attached to it.
Cooper Robinson
>Why would they smile if they didn't like you, you know? It is often a reaction, not necessarily an indication of interest.
Jace Sullivan
Actually based advice. Wow, namefag, good job on this one. Really cool.
David Smith
sounds like you need farmers only dotcom lol
Daniel Sullivan
I mean it could be, but you have to hope for the best and go for the chances you can. It's all too easy to brush off any signs and signals as something else, so you have to assume that it's the good option. Even if you're wrong 99 times but right once, it's better than assuming that all 100 times were something else and missing out on that one time.
It's like in gaming, if you're losing, you have to play to your outs and hope to win. You can't just play scared, cause you'll just slowly lose the game.
Hunter Hernandez
Don't be so entitled nigger
Andrew Fisher
Thanks, a broken watch is right twice a day :)
>It is often a reaction, not necessarily an indication of interest. Or, it's an indication of interest but not attraction. As in I want to see more of what this thing is, but that doesn't mean I like it necessarily. (But sometimes, if it makes a continued good impression, I might!)
>but they won't fucking talk to me like a normal human being even when I initiate conversation and give them obvious discussion points. Without objective details it's hard to tell if this a true issue you are facing or just the standard way flirting works. A flirty conversation is typically much less formal than "discussion points" and the standards of "normal human being" are a bit different. The push/pull is a lot more playful, you give "baits/lures" less than discussion points or you playfully chase/tease their own baits/lures if they don't go for yours.
>I'm on the autistic spectrum Who isn't? >Where do I look for LDRs? I got all mine from dating sites infinite radius. Also some from foreign social networks e.g. qq is China's skype. You can seed the search with language exchange. >Believe me, this is harder than it seems, at least for me. You can instead wave, or say "Hi how are you", or any other "inviting/welcoming" signal that is comfortable for you to replace smiling. >throwaway email My name at protonmail is but I never check it. My discord is in name. I am in omegle text chat tag r9k-throwaway for now if want to live chat a bit now.
God some chick told me today shes attracted to me and wants to date. I started chatting her up via text and now regretting it since I struggle to talk to her in person due to anxiety. Fuck me.
