Thoughts on long distance dating? Does it work?
Thoughts on long distance dating? Does it work?
Brody Rivera
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Ayden Gray
That picture pretty much sums it up.
Dylan Jones
Only works with great communication but even that is hard to balance being too needy with not talking enough.
Not worth it in my two experiences. Better to spend time with a local yourself.
Camden Diaz
It takes dedication but can work. I had a long term relationship with a girl who lived 600 miles away and it was great while it lasted
Christian Cox
What about a foreign broad?
Lucas Jenkins
Yeah I've felt this too.
Ayden Davis
No.
Your pic summarizes it enough
Jonathan Thompson
Number of times I've fucked some chick with a long distance boyfriend they don't tell you about is a lot higher than it should be.
Kevin Powell
Holy trips
James Bell
I get being worried about your girl cheating but I think the fear is overblown (or played up by closet cucks) more than anything else. I wouldn't cheat on my bf- Helps that I hate dealing with new people but still.
Joseph Hernandez
Are you cute?
Adrian Wilson
Can work as long as you're not dating a slut
Kayden Clark
You've felt an elderly man pinching your dick while you were wearing a Spiderman suit??
What the fuck is wrong with you you sick fuck?!
Joseph Robinson
It works if you're not with a stupid whore who jumps on a random's cock when you don't see each other for two weeks. It ain't hard to find if you actually raise your standards and stop having a crush on every woman you see you fucking beta
Daniel Ramirez
I'm a schizoid-tier (in the clinical, 'pathological introvert' sense, not 'quasi-schizophrenic') loner so it doesn't matter how cute I am, really. But yes, he says so.
Juan Ortiz
Requires a girls who understands that sex is not a necessity to survive and that masturbation and porn exists, otherwise pic related happens.
Ayden Robinson
Worked for me. From 2 different countries, we were long distance for 2y before she move in with me. Married for 4y now
Eli Martinez
Don't kinkshame me, you fucking bigot
Brody Rivera
When did I say I loved sluts? I think you're projecting you fucking manlette.
Julian Russell
Ahhh... yikes then
Mason Turner
Nice :) Congrats user. I hope you're both happy together
Alexander Murphy
Nope.
Tried it before, didn't work out. She moved to another state and we kept in contact for a few weeks until I brought up that it was kinda pointless keeping in touch when we were thousands of miles apart. She agreed and haven't spoken since. Honestly it isn't that painful once you accept that distance makes the difference.
Honestly I'm a little worried my current gf might dump my ass since I haven't seen her since March because of quarantine, but such is life.
Colton Peterson
Yeah, maybe my take isn't as relevant to the thread as I initially thought. Being such an outlier. But I still think that 'omg what if she cheats on me' and OP's pic comes off as repressed cuck fetishism. As far as I know, my boyfriend doesn't think about it (and I think he'd tell me).
If a distance relationship works for you and your girl then it's fine. If your personalities or your relationship aren't suited to it, then it won't work. "I'm going to sleep around and still keep the e-relationship going" seems like a weird thing to do.
Cooper Rivera
Henry Walker
I think there's some truth to that. Although it usually works out in the other direction (a fear becomes sexualized as a cope: this is the origin of e.g. clown fetishism).
It doesn't apply to 'homophobia' though, because homophobia is just distaste for homosexuals, and not an actual fear. The person who made that image, as a political statement, conceded something he shouldn't have.
Parker Long
My mistress calls up once a week to make sure I'm fine, and she's been extremely lonely and horny for almost two months as I made her promise not to have sex with anyone but me a couple years ago. It takes two though, send small messages that paraphrase, "Hey thinking of you, miss your face something fierce, You are going to make my night with a video of something frilly, something sexy before dinner."
Women require an ironhand and total domination. They beg for it, they are addicts for it. Women that don't are going to break your heart, and I guarantee you 75% of breakups of Zoomers these days are because they fall in love with sluts (first mistake) they cant control (seond mistake).
Call that bitch up, give yourself 15m tops to say hello, keep in touch, be a bit flirty and then say you gotta go and peace out. It's a scary time for her, and shes looking out for someone who she thinks will take care of her.
I made that mistake a decade ago with my first long distance relationship which was wibbly wobbly like yours, until I realized if you train woman right, she'll be like a crack addict, and jonesing for her next fix of you. My wife's grandma died from COVID a month ago and shes still here instead of down there for the funeral because she doesnt want to be away from me that long and so delayed the entire thing by six weeks so she could make it down.
Control your bitch. Be the pillar she builds her life around and watch how easy and wonderful it is not to worry about bullshit like you do now.
Thomas Kelly
No
Colton Miller
Considering the image you posted first, you're just a cuck larper
Eli Moore
No.
I had a relationship with a girl on the opposite side of the planet and it was the most insane and chaotic experience spanning 9 months total, with about 4 of those months with us living together over there in person.
Honestly, AMA. Need to vent about this shit.
Anthony Hernandez
They dont work.
i dont give a shit what anyone in this thread says, they are full of shit if they say otherwise.
ive been in 2 of them, both times they failed. once because of her, once because of me. ive known countless people who have been in them. every single one was a failure.
whoever the fuck thinks LDRs are doable, are naive beyond any comprehension. they just inherently are bad and never succeed.
Kayden Taylor
Hard pass. Thanks though.
Ryan Bell
Pass on what? My advice? Probably smart.
Adam Rivera
Nah, this guy nows it
Xavier Martin
No
Men and women require physical contact and intimacy.
Your best bet is to date a bisexual girl and give her free permission to fuck and date any women while you are out of town.
Most women are bisexual and love to get all fun and sweaty with each other, but dating men comes with certain benefits like financial stability.
Daniel Sullivan
Nah it will never, unless you're both insanely committed and borderline desperate. Just broke off my ldr, we thought it could work but eventually it just seemed ridiculous to continue. pic related
Elijah Williams
Easton Williams
>Your best bet is to date a bisexual girl and give her free permission to fuck and date any women while you are out of town.
That is a terrible, terrible, terrible fucking idea. What she's going to do is find a bi woman with an attached man, have a 3 way and eventually move over to sausage on the side if hes cute. You aren't going to know the difference except her and trust me, its not going to rest on her conscience. I accidentally broke up an engagement with a guy I knew due to his girl lying about this, and had a couple side chicks with this going on.
Cooper James
If you are worried about a friend of a friend fucking your girl then you might as well just call off the relationship.
Luke Wright
>Give her free permission to fuck and date any women
>women
Women being the operative word user. She can get naked with anything without a Y chromosome and take all the dick she wants so long as its made of rubber.