So my 5/10 girlfriend of 8 years has a stupidly low libido. We have sex like once a month (if that)

I can confirm she isn’t getting anything on the side. We hang out pretty well every day, and again, she’s like 5/10.

Been there. Cut your losses. Mine was my highschool sweetheart, solid 9. It was the most unproductive infuriating experience of my life. It made me wonder what was wrong with me that she wanted to get married but not have sex. A real mindfuck.

She’s either cheating on you or you guys are only still together because of convenience and familiarity. I’ve dealt with the latter. It will only lead to resentment and bitterness. Leave in good terms while it’s still possible.

dont be a pussy, i used to fuck 3 times a day when i slid thru. I didnt even live with her,,, point is if you aint fuckin her someone is. girls want dick like guys want pussy, they dont claim to cause then they lose the power of the pussy. anyways have a good one

We had a big chat about it a few months ago. It was pretty serious and she was crying. I deadass asked her if she was gay.

I don’t know if I can pull the plug on the relationship now, anyway. Pretty much my entire family (immediate and extended) love her to bits. If I suddenly dumped her because I wasn’t getting any tail, I’d probably be cut from the fam. Not a joke. I saw it happen to an uncle that cheated on his wife. We all still hang out with the wife and we are the uncle like once a year.

OP you already know what you need to do

If you don't have kids, consider yourself lucky.

I dont know what to say about happy post-relationship stuff.

This is exactly it. We y’all about marriage and getting a house all the time.

She talks about kids and I have to bite my tongue before saying “don’t you need to have sex in order to have kids...?”

Who gives a fuck good lord buddy be a man. If they give you shit tell them it’s none of their goddamn business. You gotta look out for you. Are any of them gonna suck your dick since she isn’t? No. So end it, tell them all to fuck off, and go find some strange.

why isnt she giving you handjobs or oral? are you giving her what she wants?

Lol, Asking her if she was gay was probably not awesome.

Ending relationships is hard and sucks. If your whole family knows her you two have been around together for a while.

I dunno. It sounds like your relationship is toxic. I would say just cut it off. I would be surprised if either of you have been happy in the last few months or even years.