Just learned my ex got raped and it is indirectly my fault, i feel like shit, AMA I guess

Her mistakes are not your fault. It is not your job to ensure that everyone is getting the proper life education from their experiences with you. Otherwise you have directly killed or hurt dozens of people by not ensuring that they received the proper lessons from interacting with you.

Begone glowie

Why blame yourself for a rapists direct action?

>she got raped and pinned it on you, while you were seeing someone else.
how is that even indirectly your fault and why do you even care if she got raped? she raped you emotionally by whatever happened

whores can't get raped

she never was very good with seeing intentions behind people, i had warned her i didn't trust the guy and she thought i was only trying to isolate her from meeting new people, which was half true.

but since I had stopped talking to her, and had cut her off everytime she tried to get back with me, in combination with me introducing her to drinking when we were together, I don't know, i feel i have some blame in it.

Tell her to call the cops then break up. She is too irresponsible and is a ticking time bomb. Way too many red flags.

It wasn't your job to be her protector. She went out and got hurt. Would it be your fault if they were in a car accident instead?

Sounds like a case of fun-at-the-time-regretted-it-later-on.
>"You wanted to have sex!"
>"I had a drink and couldn't consent!"
>"But it was your idea!"
>"Raaaaaape!"

yeah i get where you are coming from, but i made her feel like she could trust people you know, she would be fine if she had kept being like she was before meeting me.

And being her only friend i wasn't there everytime she felt doubts, i wasn't there to talk to her about things that were bothering her, i've made a promise to her to being there and i wasn't there.