>Be me, 28, and for the first time actually happy with the girl I am in a relationship with
>Want to move in with girl ,but have to come clean about drinking habits first
>I drink 8-12 tall boys literally every night I don't have to work the next day
>I am hung over just about every time I see her, but me as hungover is pretty much just me with some physical discomfort
>don't tell her this, but tell her about how I drink very often and a lot, and am secretive about it, even with family and close friends (of which I have few)
>She starts to cry
>I have known it is a problem, but it has never affected my work, or relationships thus far
>I know I can not quit, but I really like this girl
any advice Yas Forums?
Be me, 28, and for the first time actually happy with the girl I am in a relationship with
Kevin Peterson
Daniel Diaz
Slow it down and have self control. Call me a cunt but think about what's really of value here. What's at stake. Maybe AA, maybe support from her, I don't know. Have strength OP. You'll make your choice.
Joshua Robinson
Switch to cocaine. She'll see you as someone with money to support a habit and you'll have more energy to help with the moving process
Luke Rogers
>Look into tapering off.
>Do not go cold turkey.
>Ask her for help.
It's gonna suck, but if you really want to quit you can do it. Also, find a hobby. No matter how dumb or small, just find something else to focus on. The real trick is you have to actually want it.
Shrooms helped me as well, microdosing.
Michael Reed
You need to quit regardless of any girl. Or at least cut down significantly and manage forever. Just imagine the mess of yourself in 10 years time if you do nothing.
Don't try to do this on your own but contact a service or charity to help.
However, well done on being honest with her. It shows you are a decent person and actually want her to be happy.
Brody Reed
>I know I can not quit
What a fucking shit mindset
Christopher Lee
Enjoy your bricked out liver you fucking alkie
John Lopez
Just buy water and drink that instead. I'm not being sarcastic, was in a similar boat a couple years back and it was comically easy. Like just try, it might be easier than you think.
Camden Diaz
She would def support me with quitting, but alcohol has honestly been the only thing to keep level headed since I was 16. As stupid as that might sound, I honestly don't know how I would cope without it.
Samuel Sanders
I have tried a lot of things, maybe I should just drink water like crazy. I tried switching to coffee, and energy drinks, but I always ended up going back.