9/10 times if everyone you meet is a jackass, remember you're the common denominator.
Other people aren't your therapist. They're not a substitute for getting professional help. Not even your family and friends. It is one thing to vent once in awhile--yeah friends and family can help with that. It's another thing to be a ceaseless drain on everyone's good time. People like onions in their food. That doesn't mean they want to take a big old bite out of an entire onion, capiche? Small bits. Open up in small bits.
It's that old adage: misery loves company. There's nothing wrong with a little commiserating. There is something wrong when you want everyone to always be depressed with you. Help elevate yourself up by elevating other people. Form partnerships.
Lincoln Thompson
Theres the possibility of being too negative. You likely have a way in which you conduct/express yourself that pushes others away. This can be fixed with self reflection or therapy. You also sound depressed, and should consider you may be reading into things you shouldn’t. Individuals with depression and other mental disorders can do that. Again, seek therapy. You may also be justified in some of your feelings. There is possibility it is as you say and everyone around you should eat shit.
I’m just some user on the Internet. I can’t say anything that’ll make it better, but I’m sorry your life is shit. Try to get some 3rd party help that isn’t a bunch of anons. If you can’t then get a hobby until you can. Either way, you won’t really get much help here.
James Kelly
If all but not for you I would have perished to Death sought you as did me To find a fortitude beyond others This must be the way, lest you fall To go about your solitude To hone yourself into something sharper You need not my words For you have yours Now go and rise I cannot elevate you any higher
Dylan Phillips
This whole common denominator ideology is fallacious pack mentality; pack mentality is an instigator of group ostracisation and bullying. You can even see it in various group animals. If one is shown to be weak, it becomes a self-fulfilled prophecy that the others will gang up on it in overwhelming odds.
One chicken gets pecked by one and isn't strong enough to fight back. Suddenly it's pecked to death by 10. Doesn't matter if there's a real fault with that chicken, just that the pack turned on it.
Bentley Hernandez
You're allowed to be unhappy as am I for them being down there's not a part of life only you can accomplish one thing that matters then fuck'm
Kayden Allen
horrible things have been done in the name of good. my cousins beat the shit out of me every week for almost a years worth of summers because it'd "tough him up" and "be good for him". fuck "good" people. At least criminals are honest about what they'll do to you.
Well, the thing about 'opening up' to other people, is that OP is right they don't want to be opened up to; what they want is a dopamine fill. What they want, is not to have any impact on your problems, not to support you.. no. What they want, in all truth, is for you to turn around and thank them for noticing you're not doing well. They want the gratitude of noticing without the burden of responsibility. It's grotesque face saving. 'Good', means 'socially amiable', and this has been further demonstrated in issues like the halo effect where attractive people are judged to be better than unattractive people, because looking good is socially valuable.
Society is worthless.
Jack Hughes
Life is unfair, bullshit on the same or greater magnitude than this will occur. Its like climbing a mountain. There's gonna be steep slopes, vertical walls. Waiting for you, is the peak. What do you do when you made it there? You go back down. And when your done with that? Feel good, you just climbed a mountain.
Chase Walker
You can't say you are fine and then be mad that they don't continue to press the fact of if you are okay or not. But hey what do you have to be sad at anyways?
