I’m telling you, you have to make her feel safe, and assured that she is THE one and you will always be together; you LOVE her, etc
Is any of you lads have experience with conservatives gf?
I was brought up religious, so I had tons of biblical ammo to use in my favor, esp New Testament shit about Jesus accepting all sinners, even sexual sin, like the prostitutes of the time; if you’re another religion, find some angle to help
Pretty much I did. I already made her the only guy who guaranteed will marry and spend our time together until death tear us apart. Sounds hyperbolic, I know. But it is what it is.
look, sex is as biologically driven as eating; here’s something to try: when you guys get nekkid together, press your dick along her clit through her panties...no penetration, just enough to get her bean wiggling
what do you guys do together so far? like, how far have you pushed it?
The most far we did were just like this She's okay with kissing and groping. Butwhen comes with BJ or even HJ, it's a no no to her unless we're married.
I meant looks like this
ok, here’s an angle to use: now that she is hooked, tell her you’re not confident she is the one...that maybe you should get more experience (or some shit like that); the point is to make her start to get a little concerned you’ll bail; she will feel the need to do something to prove it to you...you have to be the alpha (yeah, I know it’s a bullshit term) and make her feel that need to do anything to keep you
Before I answer, it would be helpful to get some clarifiers... what is the main issue? You want to have sex and she won't do it? Or is there a bigger problem there.
I'm not trying to play therapist or anything but knowing what your main complaint is would help me answer.
ok, so clothes off but underwear on...and she grabs your dick through the boxers? I mean, a simple slip outside the peehole whatever it’s called, let her touch your actual flesh