Is any of you lads have experience with conservatives gf?
Not politically, but rather morally/religiously conservatives. Sort of "no sex before marriage" type girl.
Is any of you lads have experience with conservatives gf?
Yes, plenty. Questions, user?
How do you deal with her?
This man deserves my respect.
Nah, I only date sluts. FUCK YOU KAREN YOU HEARTLESS BITCH!!
this is actually my fetish, though that’s not the right word
getting sex from girls is easy; getting sex from conservative girls is a challenge, and it’s my thing to work them up until they give in, then bail...yeah, I’m a terrible person
tons of personal stories but it really comes down to getting them to think you love them, and they love you...then the religious/moral barriers start to fall like dominos; once they can justify in their mind “hey I might marry this guy, so whats the harm in getting started a little early” you win
the less interesting angle is the girl who is rebelling against her religious parents..boring
much more interesting is the “save it until marriage” score
to follow up, easy mode is a combination of getting her to love you (and you telling her the same) which all depends on her, so it’s hard to give advice, but suffice if she is already exclusively dating you, this part is almost a cakewalk
second part is getting her to cave physically: this is where sexual tension is the key to the lock; you’ve got to push her buttons sexually without asking for sex, such as kissing her behind
her ear, whispering, stroking her hair, rubbing her feet (cont)
How do you tear down their moral/religious barrier like that?
My gf moral barrier is M1A1 Abrams thick, I only even scratch it for a bit. The least we can do is only kissing and groping.
I begin to get the concept. Please continue
when she starts to get those trust hormones bubbling along side her own sexual needs (repressed and ready to
explode) then you move to you touching elsewhere: move from feet to legs/thighs; move from behind ear to neck/earlobes; move from hugging her from behind to positioning your arms/hands under the boob/side boob; pressing your hard dick against her anywhere makes her reptile brain fire on all cylinders
I’m telling you, you have to make her feel safe, and assured that she is THE one and you will always be together; you LOVE her, etc
I was brought up religious, so I had tons of biblical ammo to use in my favor, esp New Testament shit about Jesus accepting all sinners, even sexual sin, like the prostitutes of the time; if you’re another religion, find some angle to help
Pretty much I did. I already made her the only guy who guaranteed will marry and spend our time together until death tear us apart. Sounds hyperbolic, I know. But it is what it is.
look, sex is as biologically driven as eating; here’s something to try: when you guys get nekkid together, press your dick along her clit through her panties...no penetration, just enough to get her bean wiggling
what do you guys do together so far? like, how far have you pushed it?
The most far we did were just like this She's okay with kissing and groping. Butwhen comes with BJ or even HJ, it's a no no to her unless we're married.
I meant looks like this
ok, here’s an angle to use: now that she is hooked, tell her you’re not confident she is the one...that maybe you should get more experience (or some shit like that); the point is to make her start to get a little concerned you’ll bail; she will feel the need to do something to prove it to you...you have to be the alpha (yeah, I know it’s a bullshit term) and make her feel that need to do anything to keep you
Before I answer, it would be helpful to get some clarifiers... what is the main issue? You want to have sex and she won't do it? Or is there a bigger problem there.
I'm not trying to play therapist or anything but knowing what your main complaint is would help me answer.
ok, so clothes off but underwear on...and she grabs your dick through the boxers? I mean, a simple slip outside the peehole whatever it’s called, let her touch your actual flesh
also, for clarity, I’m telling you what to do if you don’t actually want to marry her, bc the next step is a make or break
This sounds intriguing. I will try soon.
Yes, I wan't to fuck but she don't want to because "muhh sex before marriage bad" thing.
Watching you guys in this board and my irl friends who fuck their gf sort made me a bit envy.
>inb4 stories in Yas Forums isn't real and only a fool who believes that as a fact.
More like I grind her pussy and she grinds mine while stay underwear
But I want to marry her.
well, making her realize your value is important, and if she wants to keep you, she will give in...best part is if you can get her to fuck you, she will DEF want to stay with you, since you want to marry her; for
me the hardest part is bailing on them, so
you don’t have to worry about that it sounds
Thanks for clarifying.
So... here. This is a lot. I don't know you or your gf, so I can't answer with a high degree of precision, but here is what I have found after literally having multiple conservative girlfriends.
They probably won't change who they are just for you. Remaining celibate until marriage is a large part of a girl's identity int their faith. In other words, what I am trying to say is that a lot of girls who don't want to have sex until marriage are SO serious about it that they will not do it with any guy that they aren't married to. Bottom line, do not expect that you can change them, because this is a fundamental part of their identity.
One girl I dated ended up dumping me because I was ready to move on, and she wasn't. We were at a total standstill in the relationship because of it.
My advice to you-- lay it all out to her, but before you do, make sure you have the answer to two questions. 1) "How much does having sex with her REALLY mean to me / how important is it to me?" and 2) "How much does she mean to me?"
Explain to her how much it means to you to have sex with her. If she still refuses, you might as well break up with her and find someone else-- provided that you're not completely infatuated with her. There's a chance she'll give you what you want if sex really does mean that much to you.
So ya. Ask yourself those 2 things, and then talk to her. Knowing that information will help you move forward-- and potentially end up happy and not wasting time with the wrong person.
another angle would be use your fingers against her clit through the panties; eventually that slippery wetness will allow you to “accidentally” push them ever so slightly aside and get against her skin
> My advice to you-- lay it all out to her, but before you do, make sure you have the answer to two questions. 1) "How much does having sex with her REALLY mean to me / how important is it to me?" and 2) "How much does she mean to me?"
this is good advice if you care about her (and care about yourself)
I would never, NEVER personally be willing to marry someone who I had not tried out sexually, since you need to know you are compatible; imagine being married to someone who sucks at sex,,,, you’ll either both cheat, or you’ll get divorced
Thanks you so much for the insight, user. It really broaden my knowledge.
For me, while sex it's important but at the same time it's not the top priority. I'm okay with jack myself off, and also respect her decision to not have sexual intercourse before marriage. But there's some new level intimacy when you do with the one your truly love, even before marriage or not.
Thanks user. Hope that helps somebody.
And that is a great point as well!! Some people aren't willing to commit without having that information. I suppose this makes my first question all the more important.
Nice pic haha
You're welcome! Just curious, how old are you? Age might help put some things in perspective.
Why not just marry her then? Or go find a slut. Don’t ruin her for some other guy.
All well and fine.
Does she swallow? Will she suck my dry?
After years of training, she'll be an expert.
I WANT her to demonstrate her potential.
>I would never, NEVER personally be willing to marry someone who I had not tried out sexually, since you need to know you are compatible; imagine being married to someone who sucks at sex,,,, you’ll either both cheat, or you’ll get divorced
T. Virgin
In a healthy relationship you communicate your likes and learn to enjoy it together. I fucked around before I met my wife; she waited until marriage. I honestly wish I’d done the same.
25, and she's about to go 28.
>why not marry her?
I will, next year.
>go find a slut
I did. But all of them didn't deliver the sexual satisfaction I really want to. Maybe I recognize them as whore too early, just pay, get fuck, and leave.
My wife was conservative as shit when we met, now she's an exhibitionist that likes to fuck in public. You can change things.