Have you given up on relationships love in general?

i miss leykis 101, fridays were the best too

Where are they at?

>you can fuck without having to do the hassle of dating

This is how they trap you: the prospect of free pussy all the time, anytime. But it's not free, as you're clearly aware of. And besides, you know that old adage

>no matter how hot she may be, some guy is sick and tired of putting up with her shit

Don't be that guy.

Ive given up on plenty of quality relationships just to get my dick wet again by a new girl.

now, im trying to settle down its not happening...
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Maybe one of the guys in longer term relationships can give me a pointer.

I had the closest relationship I've ever even imagined with a girl for 2 years, for those 2 years from almost the start (first month or so) we had been living together. We both felt in love and kept it super close, she already was so innocent so I felt lucky with finding 'not a slut'.

Unfortunately my mental health got worse and worse as I just let it go, my own fault, and she was affected heavily by it in what eventually turned into abuse near the end. I am disgusted with that, no one to blame but me.

She left wanting 'No Contact' as she wants to heal, wanting to spend the next while living with her mom and getting back to her normality of life. She left me with a note giving many words about a 'maybe' to us getting back together one day, if we can get better for ourselves separately.

Is this a blessing that I don't deserve, or should I not hold out for a woman who gives me a "maybe" afterwards, and if she wants me back so bad she needs to give me a good reason to return.

Thanks. I have been well into my track of coping and dealing with my issues properly. Taking hold of my illness after diagnosis.

Women are the same because people are the same. If you go after the same sort of women over and over, then you will get the same women over and over. That's the dub thing with having "a type." I can tell you, the journalist I dated was very different from the social worker. Both were different from the woman with her own copy writing freelance gig.

There's 3.5 billion women. Arguing that they're all the same when that is obviously not the case either means you haven't dated that many women, or you have dated the same type of women. Either way, your sample size is absolutely too small. But if you're tired of dating, then do take a paus from it. I did for 2 years. It's the whole "I'm never going to again" that seems over the top. Life is the longest thing you'll ever do. Keep your options open.

What about those of us who can ONLY have sex without love? As in, it's a bodily function & nothing more, where the other person merely serves as merely human kleenex? There are some people for whom there just ISN'T any kind of "emotional" connection, no manner of "bonding" when they have sex. Yet it's still fulfilling, because a core need (warm, wet hole or warm, hard flesh) is being met.

Don't presume to speak for everyone with your subjective moralizing.

This

>you probably get more pussy than I do

i wish. I'm from a sexually repressed country Girls here don't put out like they do in the West

also, in all honesty, i have fallen for my ex pretty badly and really want to be with her. I can see that she does too, but she doesn't have the balls to go against her family.

There may be a fedora shortage after this thread.