So I'll be hanging out with a girl for the first time on Monday...

Woops. Mean't to say "there's no way she's using me for a green card."

Don't think about getting laid, just get to know her. Try steering the convo towards her interests, don't talk about yourself too much.
Remember that you're also doing this to see if YOU like her.
Don't think about what you're gonna say too much, just fucking say whatever you want, it doesn't really matter.
Just be comfortable, it'll automatically make you appear more confident. Bitches love that.
Be a bit of a dick, but never be mean, never be an asshole.
This is supposed to be a fun thing, so have fun.
If you can also make her smile a few times then you're pretty much golden.

>Don't think about getting laid
She already made it about sex. They should hook up immediately to get the sexual tension out of the way. It will be good for his anxiety

I appreciate the advice but I almost feel like I urgently need to fuck her. I need to get rid of the "incel" label once and for all. If I'm going to take this route of trying to fuck on the first date, How do I initiate sex without coming off as a desperate creep?

Coercion

You must be at least 18 years old to post on this site.

Yes, she has. But he'll be nervous the entire time. He shouldn't even expect sex no matter what she said, just remove the distraction.
Plus, she did mention that the men in her country were "too aggressive".

The "incel" label doesn't peel off when you stick you penis in a vagina. It's completely self-imposed and only comes off when you decide to not think like a one.

Why do you think saying the right magical words will "initiate" sex with a woman? Either she wants to fuck you or she doesn't.
There's no secret pussy portal syntax you can input, I promise you. The advice I wrote above can prevent you getting kicked off the field but you gotta make the homerun yourself.

That's rough and is difficult to swallow honestly. But what you're saying is the truth. The advice is appreciated man. Thank you. I hope it works out for me. I keep reading what you said here over and over again.

You’re over thinking it. Just pull her pants down, and tongue punch her fart box. Then nut deep inside her pussy. Then go MGTOW

Nah fuck MGTOW dude. That shit is dumb and most men can't live single forever. Without women I feel like a worthless sack of human garbage.