Have 13/10 gf

damn, that's a rough and bizarre story. people suck.

It's time to make them feel pain for their actions.

oh man that's gotta hurt even more after 12 years. you think you'd know someone in and out by then but i guess not.

Exactly what I thought. After so long, the thought I could be alone was foreign to me. I 100% believed the only way we'd be separated was by dying. We had our lives roughly planned out, had the same interests, same values. I kept a roof over her head, food on her table, paid bills, helped her with her debt and car payments, all to watch her throw it away. Trust me when I say this, don't ever trust anyone fully.

This threads making me despise women

Letting women vote was the single biggest mistake in the history of civilization. How are they supposed to choose good leaders when they can't even decide which dick they want in them?

Blooooood ima bite.
My ex of like 5 years did this same shit like 12 years ago lol.
She worked at apple store... started hanging with new friends and "brisko" cause he looked bruce lee in the "brisk ice tea" commercials.
Bitch lies to me about all coworkers going to movies... just him and her.
(Side note i was fucking other hoes, but she never knew and still don't. )
Shit goes wild....
Ends up pregnant by a 5ft6 Filipino alcoholic pussy who got kicked out the NAVY lmao (she didnt know till way too late)

Lmaoooo

Man i was so fucked up. I mean I even had her name tatted on my arm.

But long story short, ive fucked that bitch about 50x in the last 12 years and i been married for 6 and with my wifey for 12 lol
Fucked her last dec 2016 before my daughter was born who looks like a better version of her too! Lmaooo

Shits gonna be aaight fam!

The worst part of it is it's my fault for letting her do it to me again.

After we had been together about a year, she met some friends at school and started hanging out with them pretty regularly. She joined their D&D group and about 6 weeks after she started hanging with them she left me for one of those guys. That lasted all of a month (shocking that a 25 year old girl and a 19 year old guy didn't fall madly in love because they both like D&D and Star Wars) before she told me how much she regretted breaking up and wanted to get back together. And instead of telling her to kick rocks like literally everyone I talked to about it told me to do if she came crying back to me I decided to try to make it work out.

After we got back together she also told me she had a thing going on with another guy in that group, but the timeline between when she broke up with me and started dating the other guy doesn't really match up so there's no way she wasn't dating someone else while still technically dating me.

So I put myself in position to let her do it to me again, waste another two years of my life now I'm going to be 30 years old in 2 months with no relationship prospects on the horizon and no reason to think it's going to get better any time soon.

I've been there. It's tough OP but a life well lived is a culmination of these experiences as lessons. It hurts now but you will get over it eventually.

Not to say that your ex is a bad person, maybe she's just conflicted or inconsiderate. You can spend your whole life pondering what could've been, what was wrong, or what went wrong or you can move on and try to do right by someone else. Everyone is allowed to grieve but eventually, you aren't doing yourself any favor by fixating on this.

What are you gaining by letting her stay rent-free in your head? Are you keeping the door open for this person to re-enter your life and hurt you again? You aren't allowing yourself to heal.

Go to the gym, make a tinder account, read a book. You need to jump this hurdle and live your life.

Have you people ever thought of the possibility that things weren't as good as they seemed in your relationships? I've read the posts in this thread and you're all saying the same things. If your relationships were solid then you wouldn't have a girlfriend or fiancé leaving you out of the blue would you? Obviously something was wrong and you didn't see it. That's not to say that it's necessarily your fault but the relationship wasn't going as well as you had thought it was.

I've been active in the dating scene for like 12 years. I've had multiple long-term partners, countless sexual partners, and I'm currently married. Never have I had a woman leave me as we either mutually called it off because it wasn't working or I've called if off because it wasn't working. You guys gotta get gud.