>have 13/10 gf
>drop-dead gorgeous, funniest person i know, stays fit, does great in uni, likes games, felt like she came straight out of a dream
>been together for 4 years, wildly in love with each other, inseparable, spend most of the day together gaming or going on cute dates
>ready to spend the rest of my life with her, had our futures planned out together
>happiest 4 years of my entire life
>she finishes a difficult uni semester and has more free time
>out of nowhere she starts hanging out with friends way more often than usual, typically over being with me
>tells me that she wants to keep in touch with her friends for a bit since she's neglected them
>think nothing of it
>a few weeks later she suddenly tells me she doesn't have feelings for me anymore and wants to end the relationship
>nothing i say or do changes her mind, she was pretty dead-set on her decision
>her friends are supportive of her
>my world is thrown into chaos, barely able to sleep/eat for a month, drop down to 105 pounds, barely have motivation to get out of bed
>communication between her and i drops
>2 months pass
>find out from a mutual friend that 2 weeks before we broke up, she was dating a dude she met in class
>find out the dude, her, and her friends were all in on it like some big conspiracy against me
that was almost a year ago now and it still torments me. why are people like this? did i do something bad in a previous life for this to happen?
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Shit sucks but you have to learn from it man. You put her before yourself and that’s where you fucked up. You begged her to stay with you, have some self respect man. People are going to be shitty and it’s up to you how you let it affect YOUR life.
You can mope and cry all you want while she gets fucked by chad or you can forget about that bitch, workout/ make more money and aim towards getting an even hotter chick.
Don’t ever put someone else before you user you have to be sure of yourself and think highly of your own worth
All women are lying whores, and they will always lie to cover another whore.
that's a kind and wise outlook, thank you for your advice
Something very similar happened to me. Wish I had some good answers for you but I'm still looking for them myself. All I can tell you is something I learned the hard way: if a girl says she's "hanging out with friends" and doesn't specify who, she's cheating on your ass.
oh i knew who she was hanging out with (except for the dude clearly), and that's what makes it hurt more because i was close with them too and they just betrayed me out of nowhere
months pass
wow your ex is probably getting slammed by that dude on the regular now get over it faggot
About 6 months ago my girlfriend of 3 years left me for a guy she reconnected with from high school after they went like 7 years without talking. A guy she wanted to fuck back in high school but was apparently too good for her, until he was almost 30 years and still single, but the allure of getting to pretend she was 16 years old again was apparently too much for her to pass up. So after disappearing for days at a time on more than one occasion to hang out with him (we lived about 250ish miles away from him) she finally left me and within a week moved to his city.
It sucks, but some people are just outrageously selfish and don't give a single solitary fuck about how their actions impact others. It's not your fault and there's almost certainly nothing you could have done to save your relationship.
Sorry a non. Women do this on the regular. Had my fiance that I loved for close to 12 years leave me one day out of the blue to flirt with some guy she never even met. It's not all of them, just like it's not all guys, but a lot of women are fickle trash.
damn, that's a rough and bizarre story. people suck.
It's time to make them feel pain for their actions.
oh man that's gotta hurt even more after 12 years. you think you'd know someone in and out by then but i guess not.
Exactly what I thought. After so long, the thought I could be alone was foreign to me. I 100% believed the only way we'd be separated was by dying. We had our lives roughly planned out, had the same interests, same values. I kept a roof over her head, food on her table, paid bills, helped her with her debt and car payments, all to watch her throw it away. Trust me when I say this, don't ever trust anyone fully.
This threads making me despise women
Letting women vote was the single biggest mistake in the history of civilization. How are they supposed to choose good leaders when they can't even decide which dick they want in them?
Blooooood ima bite.
My ex of like 5 years did this same shit like 12 years ago lol.
She worked at apple store... started hanging with new friends and "brisko" cause he looked bruce lee in the "brisk ice tea" commercials.
Bitch lies to me about all coworkers going to movies... just him and her.
(Side note i was fucking other hoes, but she never knew and still don't. )
Shit goes wild....
Ends up pregnant by a 5ft6 Filipino alcoholic pussy who got kicked out the NAVY lmao (she didnt know till way too late)
Lmaoooo
Man i was so fucked up. I mean I even had her name tatted on my arm.
But long story short, ive fucked that bitch about 50x in the last 12 years and i been married for 6 and with my wifey for 12 lol
Fucked her last dec 2016 before my daughter was born who looks like a better version of her too! Lmaooo
Shits gonna be aaight fam!
The worst part of it is it's my fault for letting her do it to me again.
After we had been together about a year, she met some friends at school and started hanging out with them pretty regularly. She joined their D&D group and about 6 weeks after she started hanging with them she left me for one of those guys. That lasted all of a month (shocking that a 25 year old girl and a 19 year old guy didn't fall madly in love because they both like D&D and Star Wars) before she told me how much she regretted breaking up and wanted to get back together. And instead of telling her to kick rocks like literally everyone I talked to about it told me to do if she came crying back to me I decided to try to make it work out.
After we got back together she also told me she had a thing going on with another guy in that group, but the timeline between when she broke up with me and started dating the other guy doesn't really match up so there's no way she wasn't dating someone else while still technically dating me.
So I put myself in position to let her do it to me again, waste another two years of my life now I'm going to be 30 years old in 2 months with no relationship prospects on the horizon and no reason to think it's going to get better any time soon.
I've been there. It's tough OP but a life well lived is a culmination of these experiences as lessons. It hurts now but you will get over it eventually.
Not to say that your ex is a bad person, maybe she's just conflicted or inconsiderate. You can spend your whole life pondering what could've been, what was wrong, or what went wrong or you can move on and try to do right by someone else. Everyone is allowed to grieve but eventually, you aren't doing yourself any favor by fixating on this.
What are you gaining by letting her stay rent-free in your head? Are you keeping the door open for this person to re-enter your life and hurt you again? You aren't allowing yourself to heal.
Go to the gym, make a tinder account, read a book. You need to jump this hurdle and live your life.
Have you people ever thought of the possibility that things weren't as good as they seemed in your relationships? I've read the posts in this thread and you're all saying the same things. If your relationships were solid then you wouldn't have a girlfriend or fiancé leaving you out of the blue would you? Obviously something was wrong and you didn't see it. That's not to say that it's necessarily your fault but the relationship wasn't going as well as you had thought it was.
I've been active in the dating scene for like 12 years. I've had multiple long-term partners, countless sexual partners, and I'm currently married. Never have I had a woman leave me as we either mutually called it off because it wasn't working or I've called if off because it wasn't working. You guys gotta get gud.
Dirty two holes aint shit my friend
Very true user
Communication is a two way street. Can't make adjustments if I don't know what's wrong.
get over it pussy, now you know girls are all hoes
Women are whores and that is all they will ever be. Not saying you should hate all of them, but never think anyone you're dating is above pulling this shit.
I'd tell you all about karma and what not but hasn't worked for me.
no this is how women work
they replace you once your function is done
if you were helping her out, taking care of her, or doing anything for her at all once she didnt need it anymore you got replaced with an uprade she kept on the side
the only time a females relationship is stable is when her environment is stable
if shes in college, almost all women replace their guy they are with in college when they finish, the same happens even when they change majors they swap to a diff guy that is more "compatible"
just toss her in the trash, it isnt like you wouldnt have replaced her with an 18 year old when you are a little ways into your career anyways
that's the thing though, if there was some kind of build-up to the breakup or a slow decline, problem, fight, etc, this wouldn't have hit me so hard. it literally went from one month where she was drawing photo realistic pictures of my face, to the next where she suddenly lost interest. there was no turning point or anything, and that's what bothers me so much.
>People never cheated or were shit to me so naturally it never happens and can't ever happen to anyone ever
KYS. And here's the thing, even if your relationship is going south, if you cheat you're a piece of shit and that is all you ever will be. Nothing prevents you from ending the relationship before going on to do whatever you want.
>"Active" in the dating scene.
Stop LARPing kid.
Women are just shit today. Every girl I know or even family is a dirty thot. I had the realization I don’t have a single female cousin or anything that isn’t a self inflated hoe. I’m gonna be single forever lmao
>Have you people ever thought of the possibility that things weren't as good as they seemed in your relationships?
You think I didn't fucking think of that? My gf and I were together almost 4 years, and in all that time I could count every single argument we ever had on my fingers.She just got bored of me, period. Those are her words, not mine. If there was any more to it then a whole year of me prying and prodding couldn't get it out of her. The only warning signs I can see in hindsight were times that showed she lacked a sense of honor, like when she advised me to stand up a friend's gathering that I had promised to go to long before in favor of a more fun one that just came up.
Pretty good advice anons
wow dude I'm in a similar situation with my girl (4 years, hard time at uni, not many friends so eager to find people, always planning out our life thinking ahead, perfect girl) and I can't even bring myself to imagine what it'd be like if my relationship turned up like yours. I dunno what to even say man just like holy shit. you do drugs? I'd just get high and try to forget she existed fuck.
Dude, that user is the relationship version of the inherited rich faggot that tells you he can't understand how you're broke. Fuck him.
Have you considered making her a statistic?
Making her a nigger?
Is such a thing possible?
Briefly
degenerate
What stopped you'?
Welcome to being an adult. As time goes on you'll get more jaded and things like this wont affect you nearly as much. Or you can choose to be a pussy, feel sorry for yourself, and never move on. Its been a year ffs, it sucks but way shittier things have happened to a lot of people
I accepted reality and knew that wasn't the person I wanted to be. I'm not the man I hoped I'd be at this point, but I didn't want to go down that road.
Sorry dude whores come in all shapes and sizes
Wow that advice I've never heard before was so helpful and made me feel so much better, you're a great person and certainly have the attitude of someone who has a fantastic life.
Have fun wallowing in self pitty and never finding happiness
Wasn't planning on it. No thanks to you.
Rare good advice right off the bat
You should totally post a frog and then cry about it online, faggot. If it makes you feel better, she’s with someone who isn’t a faggot.
It sounds like you don't really want to make a concerted effort to overcome this. It sounds like you just want to tell your shitty sob story to anyone that'll listen even though half of the responses in here are people who have experienced something similar telling you how they prevailed over what you're experiencing.
if you think posting on Yas Forums is going to garner you any genuine sympathy, you must be fucked up. You're spilling your beans on an anonymous message board fishing for consolation instead of moving on like she definitely already has. She's probably getting piped rn while you post pepe the frog. Maybe that's why she didn't want to be with you, faggot.
First of all I'm not OP. Second of all who the fuck do you think you're helping?
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Same thing happened to me verbatim. Speed ahead 10 years and she's married to a volunteer firefighter in our college town and I'm a Sr. Director married to a nice person with a hilarious 3 year old. It gets better user..... But look at the photo... Hurt how hot she was lol.
You never should have let her draw the pictures bro. That's when she realized she wanted to break up with you and your ugly mug
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Hahahahahhahahahhahaa faggot
It's all a big conspiracy user, it's just an elaborate joke and ur death will be the punchline
she did that for years lmao so i doubt that would be the cause but hey any reason is a possibility i guess
You figured that out too user?
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she / he did you a favor homie. sooner better than later
Probably the best advice here