She cheated on you because she's a shitty person who didn't respect you at all from the start, even before the marriage.
You are a meal ticket, a bank account and a roof over her head. That is all.
You "forgave" her which in her head means "I can probably do this one more time before a divorce". She will do it again, she will probably wait a while, a month or two, a year even but instead of using her phone she will meet someone outside of the internet and this will all begin again.
If you have kids you will be thinking about them first and foremost, that's great, make sure to let them know that everything that has happened was no fault of theirs, they are victims as much as you are, your wife destroyed her family for some fucking photos online. Absolutely get 100% custody of your children, she doesn't deserve them, your children don't deserve whatever step dad tries to replace you. She will turn them against you, they will hate you for leaving them with her.
You go find a divorce lawyer tomorrow, set up an apartment somewhere ready, anywhere, then you start divorce proceedings ensuring to take as much as you can away from her.
Draw money from accounts just before you give her the news that she's fucked it all up. Her first reaction will be to blame you for what she has done and try and use fucked logic to justify her actions, she will then go straight out to an ATM or a bank and pull as much money as she can from it to make sure she can get by without you.
Get all this going ASAP don't waste a fucking minute, go out and start fresh now, don't hang on with hope that she's miraculously changed and she will never do this again, just get the fuck out of there now.
Juan Morgan
Also any credit cards you have together, close them now, she may try to get revenge by putting you in debt. Take out a loan, pay off any small debts you have yourself so she can't use it in the divorce counter claim.
Matthew Rodriguez
Dude, wake up, who cares? Consider it a blessing, that you aren't 30 years down the road with kids, house, retirement, etc, etc. only to find out that she's sucking cock---not yours all the time, even better she doesn't give squat that you know it. So quit obsessing about revenge, let it go and let her go and you'll thank the Gods when you find a fantastic women who is hotter, smarter, fucks ten times better, and she's totally loyal and maybe even wealthy. Exactly. Get a clue, cut your losses, if not you'll meet some fantastic woman who will realize that you're such a loser still obsessing like a 16 year old who's butt hurt about being dumped and cheated on. Grow up and move on, shit happens.
Justin Miller
Cuck her into watching you beat the shit out of the guy, like brutal just beating, make sure tou do it oike a porno, "you like that dont ya bitch" then hit him really fucking hard. Ps if she like my ex have fun going through the courts
Joseph Jackson
>bring proof of infidelity to divorce lawyer Okay so far >remove half of money from joint bank Maybe okay, but probably not because the divorce court will ask you to account for it >file divorce papers Okay >if house is under your name, change locks Law doesn’t work that way. Can’t throw her out, and even if you did, it’s your children’s home, so a court would likely order you to let her live there or require you to pay for a home for her during the divorce proceeding >if under both, get an apartment and sell your half Court won’t let you sell it except as part of the final dissolution in the divorce proceeding >if you have children, don’t confront but leave proof out in open for them to find of her infidelity Which she inevitably will blame on you in court, and which may then affect your custody claim >make them hate her I guess this a possibility >if you have kids, file for full custody especially if you make more income so you don’t have to pay child support Unless she has substance abuse or mental issues, there’s no way this is happening
Lawfag here. Don’t take advice from retards with revenge fantasies. Start by talking to a divorce attorney. >proof of infidelity should be reasonable enough for you not to have to pay alimony unless you’re from a backwards state