Married to wife for 18 years

This isn't a rekt thread

Move on.

Hit the gym, delete all social media, get a promotion at work. If she did it once, she'll do it again.

Not worth spending your one life a slave to some's infidelity and dishonestly.

Live your life.

Will do that eventually.
But first I want to have my moment of payback

>It's about making her go through the feelings(or similar) I had to go through..

Women don't have feelings OP, there is literal nothing you can do in order to make her feel bad

The only true way to get back at a woman is to be indifferent to them, they literally cant stand it. Tell her you're done with her and leave emotion completely at the door, it will drive her up a wall

Seconded, their karma is theirs, yours is yours.

That is the payback my dude.
Prepare quietly, dump that bitch, move on, be happier with someone else.
100% this is the most damaging long game to use on your slut wife. Anything else can only be used against you.

Wise words on Yas Forums?

Divorce her.

Better restart your life as quick as you can. Dangling in that relationship will consume you and consume her, making her to seek her lover again.

Stomp a tranny to death

How about him? The only thing I know is his Instagram account name.
Are there ways to hack it to get more info?
Google only links to stupid pay sites
She has deleted hers

I prefer the cold shoulder approach. Ignore her, treat her like you would a 20$ whore because that's what she is. Hate fuck her. Put more responsibilities on her. Then when she is at her lowest point leave her

I'll second the "don't interact" advice. Been there. Only in contact with exwife once in the twenty years since; she wanted something. Redrafted my response half a dozen times before I was able to remove all trace of emotion. She replied once (to save fact I'm guessing) and hasn't contacted me again since.

Also done it with a more recent ex. Was waiting on bench at a favorite restaurant. She walked out and I looked right past her with no recognition. Saw crestfallen face in peripheral vision.

I know it's hard man but take my word for it.
Whatever you do to balance the scales, you will lose.
It is exactly like I said.

I just saved your life bruh. Take my advice, dig a hole, or kys.

Join military and die a hero. At funeral make family and friends reveal she's nothing to you but a cheater.

Kek

>Thanks bros for your advice. I'll seriously explore my possibilities...

The easiest way to fake one's death is to go into the wilderness (hiking, camping, etc.) and never be found.

Take her backpacking and kill her as you wish. Make the body disappear while leaving zero evidence of your foul play.
- burn the body
- sink it in a mountain lake
- bury in deep hole
- dump her in a cave

Another option is an accidental death where she falls off a steep cliff on your trip. A known hazard of hiking in certain areas.

Perhaps you take a second honeymoon to Mexico and she is tragically killed by narcos.

Perhaps you'd like a hand-written apology for the affair. Then after she writes this apology she feels so guilty that she hangs herself. The apology note must've been a suicide note.

If you want her to live branded as a whore, consider colloidal silver in her food or up her bum (during sex). Excessive doses turn the skin permanently a bluish-gray.

Divorce.

>What can I do to have my revenge ?
Anything more than a surprise divorce in your favor won't do you any good. Tormenting her just provides evidence against you in family court for more alimony. Talk to a few lawyers (a consult with every family law firm within a 50mi radius would force your wife to drive far to find one that can still remain conflict of interest-free), gather evidence, start securing your finances and assets, and blindside her with papers. Take as much as you can while leaving her with as little as possible. A good lawyer will also know good judges who don't always take a woman's side.

Agreed, the only downside is that eventually you actually start not caring and become completely callous towards emotion at all. So sure the tactic helps to control women, but it also never really let's you get close to them. True double edged sword

Cheat on her with the guy she cheated on you with.

My wife did this to me and I didn't find out about it for a few years afterwards. Probably would have divorced her if I'd known about it back then but the kids are older and besides, I get off on watching her get laid now. It all works out user!

Just move on retard, I'd say you deserve better but you're looking for an advice on Yas Forums.

Just leave dude. It's only going to consume you and make you a shitty person lusting after revenge. Move on.

If your wife's name is Kate...my bad.

>you actually start not caring
not if you make it personal. I had remarked to friend that the ex gf could lie to to me by walking, which then actually happened a couple of weeks later when I was out. Avoid generalizing to all women, since it's really not the case; just incredibly common.

I like this guy

Get AIDS and give it to her. Don’t tell her until she starts getting sick. If you live in California it’s legal and she won’t even be able to do anything about it. You’ll die of AIDS too but unlike her you’ll be smiling when you die.

TRUST THIS MAN! That's the voice of someone who was fucked over and has fantasized of the perfect revenge.

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I fucked a married chick named Kate. And her husband found out. And he forgave her. And now I still fuck her, but we also get to laugh at him. He's trying so hard to rebuild their relationship, and she's sucking my dick in her minivan.

If a man steals your wife, the greatest revenge is to let him keep her.

Joke's on you. I'm Kate and I'm a tranny

if you had got quints I would have believed you.

this. and poison the childern. then an heor.

...

Second this. You need to be sneakier than she was. Divorce laws fucking suck for guys so be careful my guy.

Then leave her and take everything that's yours.

First based comment I've seen this year on Yas Forums

If you actually forgive her, not only will your life be simpler and guilt-free, but she'll suffer endlessly with guilt and wondering if/how/when you'll retaliate.

What's wrong with you b/tards.

Post nudes and vids OP then tell her what you did.

It's called the high road.

>Believing in karma
Kys retarded schizofaggot

"Dig a hole or kys"
I'm yet to see someone give a more pathetic advice than yours

Why would you tell someone to die for Israel? Are you a jew?

Kys cuck, you're half of the problem, whore enabler

NOTHING
and it will destroy her.

It's called being a cuck, she won't fell any remorse.

Posted in another thread, judge me bois

Honestly OP, first of all you're a retard for asking for advice on Yas Forums.
Secondly, you'll deserve everything shitty that has happened to your relationship if you follow those comments saying "just let karma do da job, she'll feel remorse, if you do something bad you'll be bad :(". Because if you do so you'll be a true cuck.

You can't do it because it's illegal, but it's hard to beat a good old fashioned BTK

She cheated on you because she's a shitty person who didn't respect you at all from the start, even before the marriage.

You are a meal ticket, a bank account and a roof over her head. That is all.

You "forgave" her which in her head means "I can probably do this one more time before a divorce". She will do it again, she will probably wait a while, a month or two, a year even but instead of using her phone she will meet someone outside of the internet and this will all begin again.

If you have kids you will be thinking about them first and foremost, that's great, make sure to let them know that everything that has happened was no fault of theirs, they are victims as much as you are, your wife destroyed her family for some fucking photos online. Absolutely get 100% custody of your children, she doesn't deserve them, your children don't deserve whatever step dad tries to replace you. She will turn them against you, they will hate you for leaving them with her.

You go find a divorce lawyer tomorrow, set up an apartment somewhere ready, anywhere, then you start divorce proceedings ensuring to take as much as you can away from her.

Draw money from accounts just before you give her the news that she's fucked it all up. Her first reaction will be to blame you for what she has done and try and use fucked logic to justify her actions, she will then go straight out to an ATM or a bank and pull as much money as she can from it to make sure she can get by without you.

Get all this going ASAP don't waste a fucking minute, go out and start fresh now, don't hang on with hope that she's miraculously changed and she will never do this again, just get the fuck out of there now.

Also any credit cards you have together, close them now, she may try to get revenge by putting you in debt. Take out a loan, pay off any small debts you have yourself so she can't use it in the divorce counter claim.

Dude, wake up, who cares? Consider it a blessing, that you aren't 30 years down the road with kids, house, retirement, etc, etc. only to find out that she's sucking cock---not yours all the time, even better she doesn't give squat that you know it. So quit obsessing about revenge, let it go and let her go and you'll thank the Gods when you find a fantastic women who is hotter, smarter, fucks ten times better, and she's totally loyal and maybe even wealthy. Exactly. Get a clue, cut your losses, if not you'll meet some fantastic woman who will realize that you're such a loser still obsessing like a 16 year old who's butt hurt about being dumped and cheated on. Grow up and move on, shit happens.

Cuck her into watching you beat the shit out of the guy, like brutal just beating, make sure tou do it oike a porno, "you like that dont ya bitch" then hit him really fucking hard.
Ps if she like my ex have fun going through the courts

>bring proof of infidelity to divorce lawyer
Okay so far
>remove half of money from joint bank
Maybe okay, but probably not because the divorce court will ask you to account for it
>file divorce papers
Okay
>if house is under your name, change locks
Law doesn’t work that way. Can’t throw her out, and even if you did, it’s your children’s home, so a court would likely order you to let her live there or require you to pay for a home for her during the divorce proceeding
>if under both, get an apartment and sell your half
Court won’t let you sell it except as part of the final dissolution in the divorce proceeding
>if you have children, don’t confront but leave proof out in open for them to find of her infidelity
Which she inevitably will blame on you in court, and which may then affect your custody claim
>make them hate her
I guess this a possibility
>if you have kids, file for full custody especially if you make more income so you don’t have to pay child support
Unless she has substance abuse or mental issues, there’s no way this is happening

Lawfag here. Don’t take advice from retards with revenge fantasies. Start by talking to a divorce attorney.
>proof of infidelity should be reasonable enough for you not to have to pay alimony unless you’re from a backwards state