How can I tell if my mom was trying to groom me as a kid? The more I’ve been thinking back on my childhood and I’m having a hard time telling if my mom just has no sense boundaries and just doesn’t know when she’s being inappropriate, just didn’t care to correct my behavior, or was actively grooming me. So from about ages 4-10 I slept in the same bed as my mom pretty much every night. At about age 7 I started experiencing erections and would often rub my dick on stuff to get hard, and because my parents always had told me what sex was from a very early age, 5 I think, which while I was confused by the mechanics at the time because I thought the vagina was a slit where the pee came out, I still did know what my penis was and how it worked. So being the curious little guy I was I had a tendency to press my chub against my mom whenever we spooned. For whatever reason or another she never seemed to show any response, even when she was awake. At about age 8 I had started understand what attraction was and understand what constituted sexual contact, and what the significance of each erogenous zone was. So I started to grope my moms breasts, ass, and vagina in her sleep and she never seemed to move while doing so. So what I can’t figure out is is if she let it happen because she wanted it to as a means of grooming me without having to do anything herself, was totally unaware (somehow), or just didn’t know how to process it so she just let it happen. I low key hope it was the grooming because for someone who normally understands proper conversational boundaries between family members she sure seems to be open to talking about our sex lives together. And also last time I visited her she was giving me the google eyes the whole time we were in private.
How can I tell if my mom was trying to groom me as a kid...
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Nah. I should have formatted it in greentext though. I just want someone else’s opinion. I low key kinda wanna see how far I can go now as an adult. I just gotta make sure that she was intentionally grooming me without trying to think I want to go after her and ruin her. If anything it gives me motive to move in with her and current husband. I’ll have a safe and comfy home, a close bond with my family that my life has been lacking for a very long time, and plenty of crazy good pussy. Like I know she definitely knows what she’s doing based on some of the stories she’s told me. Honestly it makes me wanna see how good I am.
U have a very incestuous mother. Do u want to have sex with her?
Her and my step mom have been my primary gal fantasies from about the age of 15. Never my sister because she’s a mega dyke and I personally don’t find lesbians attractive. I also have quite a few cousins who I’ve been super into since I was about 12-13. Tall, thing, Blonde hair blue eyes type of family, on both sides.
she tryin to fuck
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Complete family of incest. I'm working thru the same things with emdr.
What’s your advice, user. How should I bring it up? If I’m wrong I don’t want to make it seem like she raised a hopeless pervert. But seeing as how she was most likely molested by her dad, I’m willing to bet she wanted to do the same with me but could never fully commit out of fear and shame.