What ended the best relationship you ever had? Have you moved on?

What ended the best relationship you ever had? Have you moved on?

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>He's a good boy.

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Was the relationship worth your life, dude?

she wanted to be swingers
i didn't
she partook
im married to someone else now and doing better. took a lot of years to get over her though

i still think her every day, nights and in my dreams.

i miss her so fucking much but she just doesnt love me anymore

about her*

Cheating. Now I'm lonely.

>Be me
>the year is 2013
>girlfriend loves me to death
>me acting like a pimp knowing i have no hoes
>pay no attention to her because its the cool thing to do
>deep down love her to death too
>finally gets tired and ask me if i lost feelings for her so she can move on
>say idc even though i dont want to lose her
>fast forward 2020
>total lonely loser
>ex is happy with a good guy
>still miss her

I would take her back and marry her and never let her go but i know i cant

Happens to the best of us

Did you cheat on her? Or she on you?

Currently in the best relationship I've ever been in. the second best one was ended because she stopped loving me. Told me one morning. She stuck with me for three months while I tried to get my shit together, to make sure I would take care of myself. I don't miss her, but of all the exes I have ever had, I have never once thought I could have spent my time better than being with her.

It does however pale in comparison with the current one. The current one was like a religious experience, when we met. Nothing I have ever done even comes close to it. Still with her, 8 years later.

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My dad was...is a heavy drinker, a man filled with many regrets. I think your ex taught you the best life lesson she could, and she knew she was doing it. I think that was the best way she could show you that she loved you. My dad is betterish, but he was a pretty awful man for a long time and I have forgiven his past. I am glad you're able to control yourself for the most part, and I hope you are able to forgive yours in full someday. Keep it up, my dude.

I have rarely deleted a nude from an ex without making sure I can get it back someday. I think most of us on this board could be in your shoes at any moment. That's a bummer dude. Really unfortunate.

I'm sorry for your loss, man. I always put pets of the past in this perspective (super gay shit incoming); they are a part of our lives, a very deep and meaningful part, but we are all of theirs. They get to spend their entire lives with someone that loves them unconditionally. That's one hell of a great life to live.

This time last year we were getting married, then she went full psycho on me, accused me of the cheating which I absolutely was not...then proceeded to make my life hell after that...in the weeks that followed she tried to steal my dog, I lost my high paying job due to depression, I'm still not out the other side, I'm only starting to get my life back on track, interviews are coming thick and fast, I'm studying away hard, I'm moving to a new city tomorrow and I still have my dog. I go days without negative thoughts and then out of nowhere I will dream about her. She was a solid 9/10 girl, I'm older now, I doubt I'll ever have that again.

Learning life lessons the hard way seems unfair while it happens, but it's good you are aware of what happened, own up to it, and are working on it for the better.

Not very specific. What's up, man?
That's the kind of "happily ever after" we all want. I gotta give her props though, she was honest with her feelings, and stayed to guide you through the end. That was very kind of her on all fronts. I'm glad things have worked out well for you, user. Gives me hope!
The ultimate redneck barn party 2AM, only the single lonely dudes left singalong. Been there.

You hit the nail on the head, brother... I spent 2 years in solitary confinement with my buddy. No family. No friends. No anything. Just us. While he did pass way before his prime, he was super spoiled as well. The best thing is that whenever I was home he was either in my lap or sleeping on my shoulder. We loved each other like nobody could imagine. But thanks foe sharing the feels, bro. No words can express how much I miss my shitty kitty bang bang.

Ah, the Great White Buffalo. The one that's always gunna be a dime. The one that can really fuck you over bad and turn your heart into ice, but dreams are still full of those old bittersweet moments. I'm sort of with you, just a bit. Got my life together, but when my kid's mom drops him off or I pick him up, I die just a little everytime I see her. I used to think she took my emotions with her and gave them back when I got my son for the week/weekend. Fortunately, her and I get along very well. We just sucked at being together romantically. Sucks that it took 7 years to figure it out.

It's awesome that you got to keep your dog. My original picture is a 4 month old mutt, mostly aussie and jack russel. Even though I am training him from the ground-up and will absolutely have to replace my carpets beforw I sell my house, he has been the best anti-depressant I ever had. You keeping that dog is a lifelone, and I am sure he/she is a good doggo.

she broke up with me for some idiot, we had a really cloae relationship we didn't need words to understand each other and our friends concidered us almost as one person.
It's more than 10 years ago and every relationship I had was not even remotely comparable. I m seriously concidering to stop dating completely because think I will never have a deep connection like this again.

broken computer - it was an online relationship on Second Life.

inb4: user is pathetic, go outside and meet real women

You are pat...
>inb4: user is pathetic, go outside and meet real women
Fuck you inb4'ed

me and also me, bitch is still her maybe another time user.

drunk was for you

my god, trump would call you a loser if he met you.

you get no sympathy from me because online relationships are a total sham. you don't know how the other person is in real life. take it as a blessing in disguise because online relationships are doomed to fail eventually.

2nd, who do you even know if you were being catfished? anyone can claim to be anybody over the internet these days

and 3rd, who the fuck still plays second life? only fat loser degenerates still play that abortion of a game.

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She decided getting high and lying to me was worth more than the good times we had before it got fucked. Haven't moved on entirely. Just chilling and waiting for the void to fill.

Absolutely man, I totally understand. That's one hell of a bond.

Jokes on you OP, I've never been in a relationship!! I'm too toxic for any woman to love!!!

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i never even get to the relationship stage. even though i'm only having contact/sex with one woman for over 4 years now.
i think women only want to have a "relationship" if they want your money, otherwise they don't want to put a label on it.

I seem to have the same problem. I can make it a few months in that honeymoon early phase of a relationship, but just as things start to simmer, I start seeing and comparing my new girl to my 'one that got away' and I watch myself pull away. That shit is so frustrating, but I haven't let go of hope just yet and neither should you.

>online relationship best relationship
kek, I hope you're in high school or early college. Otherwise that's just sad and you should kill yourself. The dating scene only gets harder as you get older.

Nothing, yet. Although I broke my own hand so that's probably not a good sign.

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nothing wrong with having an online relationship if you are lonely anyways. at least you can talk to your online gf everyday and you can read her writing "i love you" every night before going to sleep and you can have sex with her every few weeks/months depending on the distance she lives away from you.

You can't John Mayer that shit, dude. You can't sit there waiting on the world to change. She may have been the problem and you may not be ready, but as soon as you think you can try again, I say jump into the void. It's a 50/50 shot everytime, and having the weight of the past doesn't scale the odds in your favor, but if you don't try, you'll regret it. I missed out on a good woman because I told her I wasn't ready even though my head was telling me to give it a shot. Even my second choice up and got married, recently at that. It may have had potential, but it didn't happen. And that's on me. I don't plan on making that mistake again.

>relatable deep feels in this thread
>maybe ive been trying to convince myself it wasn't my fault but in the end it really was? Idontevenknow
>told myself I wasn't going to drink today
fuck u guys im out, smoke a bowl and watch some high shit

but it's a red flag if you're so repulsive that the local women wants nothing to do with you. online, any sleazeball can control how they are seen by the world

just here to say good boi

>the local women
thinking like that only works if you are animalistic about it, just looking for a breeding machine/sex partner. If you want someone you can connect with and share interests things get much harder and finding a woman online can actually be much more successful. Of course it all has pros and cons.

Dated a girl for 6 years from when I was 14 to 20 years old. She was a great girl, very religious but very much wife material.

I joined the military, got to base, figured I either need to marry her or move on. And having been to parties full of drunk girls, I didn't want to marry the only girl I'd ever really been with.

Fast foward 15 years, she's hotter now than when I knew her, owns her own business, and I'm married to a whale.

good for her

At least you know it's you and not them. That's more positive than you think.
Nah man, that mindset is, to me anyway, a way to excuse your shortcomings with by pushing a generalization and ideology that a couple badly written characters in tv shows and a small, but loud part of Yas Forums believe to be true. When people argue "all" of a type of human being are a certain way, that person loses cedibility because they have already made up their mind on an impossible made up statistic. Sure, there's a lot of materialistic people out there (bros and hoes), but I have never dated a woman that knew my personal finances, much less expected anything financially unless we discussed it like people in their mid to late 20's should do (like rent or electricity). You gotta get out of that mentality before you become the stereotype.

at least you know what you're getting into when you get involved with real life women. online, you can get catfished.

just try to be chronically poor. i really mean poor in a way that a woman doesn't even expect you to ever make a decent living.
then talk again.

Although I personally see LDRs as relatively shallow and often a distraction from reality, especially ones where the two people haven't met in person, they aren't a total loss or without meaning. I do agree though, it's not a great way to practice for the dating scene later on in life. I'm at the age where I kind of have to accept that if I date my age (I often do, if not, older) I am going to be dating someone with baggage just like I have. I have never had an online relationship though.
If you know the person in real life, I think there's validity in the relationship, but it's a slippery slope of allowing yourself to life vicariously through the internet where even the most honest people are going to build a giant fantasy fortress. Nothing gold can stay, and if/when that ends, you're either going to try to find another internet girlfriend, or you're going to find out the real world dating scene has changed since you last stepped foot in it and you're way behind.

>be me
>in 13 year relationship
>married 6 months
>5 of the 6 months wife was having an affair with a supervisor at work
>find out
>try to forgive her
>she reveals a new gory detail every day for 20 days straight
>swears on her life each day that gory detail was the last one
>went from texting him a picture of her tits to anal in my car at a rest stop on their lunch break
>have enough
>get blackout drunk
>tell her we are done, I want a divorce and wish I never met her
>she attacks me
>do nothing
>fight all night long until 5am
>go to bed and get undressed
>she's wearing her panties we got married in
>had found pictures of her masturbating in them that she sent her supervisor
>see the panties and go into a rage
>put my finger in her face and tell her "those were supposed to be for me"
>she puts her finger in my face and says'they were never for you"
>grab her by the throat
>throw her on the bed
>lightly thump her on the head with my middle knuckle 7 times
>didn't leave a bruise draw blood or anything
>she tells her friend who hates me the next day and she takes her to the police station
>get arrested
>charged with aggravated assault
>spend almost 6 months locked up
>am about to lose my house and everything in it
>take a plea deal of 15 years probation so I don't lose everything
>now I'm a felon
>was 5 years ago

Good luck, stay in the good side of things if you can. Later dude!
Fitzgerald thanks you. He just took a shit outside where he's supposed to though, so he may be really happy because he knows he's going to get a treat. Either way, he got an extra good boi.

reminds me of one of my friends in high school.

He's 6'5, about 400 lbs, and on the spectrum. Pretty much none of the girls in my city wanted to date him and called him creepy. I mean he's not a bad guy, he's just weird.
So he started talking to a girl in egypt. At first he was worried that that his egyptian gf might not like him because of his appearance. Our friends and i encouraged him to send her a real photo of himself since they were going to meet in the future anyway and she liked him for his personality already.
6 years later, they got married. the egyptian girl was surprisingly cute and sweet. Now they're parents to 2 girls.
Anyway, all this didn't come easy to my friend. He took the effort to learn about the egyptian culture and language and to learn to be presentable to her family.
I have mad respect for him overcoming his dating barriers.

I’m sorry you lost your kitty :( I’m sure he had a good life

besides her being fat...are you happy in your marriage?

Lol, classic SSG story right there man. Did a few years myself, but I was a one contract and done kind of dude. I can't tell you how not surprised I was to see an NCO have a 12 pack and his wife be made of blubber (JUST BIG BONED) and demand to be saluted at the gate. Does she sell ItWorks? Is she a boss babe?

Just fucking with you, man. Although I now realize it was a blessing to not work out, I almost got married to a 1st grade teacher when I was stationed in Colorado. I caught her cheating on me with an officer from another BN, but I was already second guessing it and being distant. I just called her a few creative names and laid into the LT that she was half naked in bed with. Walked out of the house angry and sad, but at least my doubts were made clear. Never talked to her again and I never heard shit from another unit. Good times, good times.

The blackpill is a bitter remedy, but in it is truth and peace

I found my father dead on his couch from drink last year. That's you, that is.