My discord oneitis messages me

Having a personality is just something to entertain women? Mega cope
Why would anybody pay attention to somebody who is indistinguishable from 10000s of others, be it female or male

Why are you so keen to shame somebody for failing to interest women? You think Mommy will pat you on the head for caring?

just confront her about it mate, tell her it makes you feel bad - if you think you can't, it's just a very shitty one-sided friendship, i'm afraid (sorry)

>i don't think sex will happen
Please don't be like this. Sex isn't something she decides to give you if you're a good boy. Sex is something you both engage in because you want to.
Either pursue her as a lover or a friend or leave her alone. Her behavior towards you is shitty so I'd get away from her. I've had people like this in my life and it's just a never-ending carousel of attention-seeking self-pitying destructive behavior where she inflates some personal issue for pity points because she has nothing to offer.
Don't fall for it. Improve yourself and be attractive. Then pursue what you want. Don't be a passive why-does-the-world-do-this-to-me wuss.

I don't want to shame anybody, you just should expect for people to be interested in you, if you're not interesting. I mean, it makes sense? If somebody decides to feel shame over it, it's up to them.