>my discord oneitis messages me
>i message her back asking how she is doing
>she stops replying
why are women like this? why message someone once and just stop?
My discord oneitis messages me
to string you along for attention just incase she needs your money
Someone more attractive probably messaged her at that moment.
For real.
>initiates conversation
>i reply
>she doesn't answer
What the fuck? Why even bother? I didn't message you, you ignorant bitch. Don't act like I'm the burden.
>female adds me after talking on a discord chat for a bit
>she only talks to me when she isn't talking to her legions of fuckboys, ie late at night
>she gets genuinely upset if i don't give her immediate attention
All women need to be forced to endure 6 months of survival in the woods
she has never once asked for money.
she says i'm cute but some better looking guy is talking to her probably.
From my experience with (irl) women, they feel the need to space out their responses to not seem desperate
>Don't act like I'm the burden
this. don't act like it's so hard to talk to me and starting a call and hanging up right away is pretty shitty.
why do women care about seeming desperate? it's only a bad thing when guys are desperate.
oh no! i wonder why she is like this, you seem like such a charmer
probably messaged you just out of charity, although i agree she shouldn't have, considering your pathetic feat of rage right now
>All women need to be forced to endure 6 months of survival in the woods
worse, they should get to spend a week as a non-chad male
the ones that don't suicide can be my friend
>you seem like such a charmer
>considering your pathetic feat of rage right now
i don't like being ignored and played with. so if i get upset no one can blame me.
They're literally committing suicide over not being allowed to go outside and take selfies for emotional validation.
Women simply are not suited to living in a complex world where bad things may happen.
Your real mistake was messaging a woman in the first place.
She doesn't do it to reach out to you. She does it to see if you will respond and get validated.
You were a tool in her daily ego-boost.
You court women you desire and you leave the others alone.
>all women are like this
>picture of a woman being bitten up
you seem like a man of shoddy character to react like that to somebody not answering your bland question
if you're fucking ignored take the hint, not even claiming that woman is any good, just fucking get over yourself you fucking child
>She does it to see if you will respond
yeah i know
>You court women you desire
i do desire her i think i'm in love with her
t.roastie/faggot white knight
Oh, dude, I fucking know exactly how you feel. I've had women whose very existence I don't even give the slightest bit of a single fuck about in any way, shape, or form initiate a conversation with me and then kill it dead in its tracks. Like, this is how it typically always goes when a woman messages me:
>Her: "Hey, what are you doing?"
>Me: "Not much. Just playing *insert video game* while listening to music or Youtube videos in the background. What are you doing?"
>Her: "Nothing... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ..."
Literally every single fucking time without fail it goes exactly like that. Why are none of these worthless fucking spastic cunts ever fucking doing anything? And it even happens multiple times with the exact same fucking women as well. Seriously, they're the ones who fucking started the conversation and they didn't even have anything to say in the fucking first place. If you don't have anything to say to me, then don't fucking talk to me, and especially don't fucking do it out of boredom, like as if talking to me is somehow gonna fix your boredom, you putrid fucking cow. Also, don't ever type "nothing" when someone asks you what you're doing. Nothing kills a fucking conversation faster than that, because what the fuck am I even supposed to respond with when you type "nothing"? They're so fucking idiotic. Basic common sense eludes them. And what's worse is that I'm a complete and total fucking loser. For the last 8 years, all I've done is sit in my room all day playing video games, watching anime, and watching Youtube vids. My life is not interesting in any way whatsoever and yet I still manage to somehow be infinitely more interesting than these stupid fucking sluts. Jesus fucking Christ women are so, so, soooooo fucking useless. This is why I avoid talking to women as much as I possibly can.
>react like that to somebody not answering your bland question
i asked her how she was because she is depressed and her mom isn't in good health? i was concerned, why even initiate a conversation if you are just going to leave after the first message?
>i do desire her
No you don't. You desire the idea of being with her and you're afraid of being alone.
She uses your attention for validation because she is superficial and has no internal locus of self.
Do better.
>friend of a friend messages me
>hey hows it going?
>hi friend of a friend, you know, not up to too much right now, how are you?
>i'm good user, how are you?
they do this all the time when they try to strike up a convo. now i dont reply to the question i already answered. its mean but i dont give a fuck anymore.
>You desire the idea of being with her
is there a difference?
>Do better.
i don't think i can. she is very attractive and we have a lot of things in common, we even have the same mbti.
it's a shit thing to do sure and i myself probably wouldn't keep a person like that around, or at least confront them over their unacceptable behavior
your reaction is still quite disproportionate though, could still be just a misunderstanding
>is there a difference
Yes. If you act like this, it's not her that you want but your idea of what being with her would be. You're using her as a prop in your fantasy and this is quintessential "nice guy" behavior.
This is like those losers who are "nice" to a woman because they act like it's putting coins in a vending machine and pretty soon sex/attention will fall out. They're lonely and sad and they grow old and bitter. She's doing the woman's variant of this. She has nothing. She is nothing but a shell so she needs outside attention to tell her she's not uninteresting.
Here's the real redpill: You're not selling, nobody will buy. There must be something about you that attracts other people. She's contacting you because you give her attention, not because she wants YOU for some quality that you can offer. Work on improving yourself and become desireable to others. Then you pursue those you want for qualities that they have instead of fear of being alone.
i'm not even mad i'm just sad i understand she has a life of her own but don't message me if you don't want to talk. she does this stuff every so often, if she was busy she could just say so.
>her: initiates
>me: says something extremely dull, then copies her question
>her: wow what a fucking dullard i'll just hope he leaves
that's what happened in reality. if it keeps happening, start to think about how interesting you truly are
PUA's basically believe that men exist for the amusement of women. They have the mentality of little boys trying to entertain their women. This is just one of many examples proving this point. Many such cases.
>her: I'm insecure. I need validation
>him: Oh shit! Attention! Hi! How are you! I fear being alone"
>her: Job done. I still have an orbiter so I must be a real person
That's what's really going on here. Don't pretend like he's 100% at fault here and that her farts don't smell. Women are as fucked up as men are, frequently more so.
>You're using her as a prop in your fantasy
no not really. before i started talking to her she wasn't what i would describe as my fantasy girl. she isn't one of my perfect anime girl's she has flaws and i accept who she is.
>act like it's putting coins in a vending machine and pretty soon sex/attention will fall out.
i don't think sex will happen unless she suddenly falls so madly in love with me she flys to where i live. i just talk to her because i like her.
>>i message her back asking how she is doing
>>she stops replying
Having a personality is just something to entertain women? Mega cope
Why would anybody pay attention to somebody who is indistinguishable from 10000s of others, be it female or male
Why are you so keen to shame somebody for failing to interest women? You think Mommy will pat you on the head for caring?
just confront her about it mate, tell her it makes you feel bad - if you think you can't, it's just a very shitty one-sided friendship, i'm afraid (sorry)
>i don't think sex will happen
Please don't be like this. Sex isn't something she decides to give you if you're a good boy. Sex is something you both engage in because you want to.
Either pursue her as a lover or a friend or leave her alone. Her behavior towards you is shitty so I'd get away from her. I've had people like this in my life and it's just a never-ending carousel of attention-seeking self-pitying destructive behavior where she inflates some personal issue for pity points because she has nothing to offer.
Don't fall for it. Improve yourself and be attractive. Then pursue what you want. Don't be a passive why-does-the-world-do-this-to-me wuss.
I don't want to shame anybody, you just should expect for people to be interested in you, if you're not interesting. I mean, it makes sense? If somebody decides to feel shame over it, it's up to them.