Holy shit.
I just made a profile on match to see what it is like on the girl's side. I just put up one pic that I found by scrolling through facebook generically. The lady is a random 35yo secretary. As average as average can be. In 24 hours I have 114 "likes" and 30 personalized messages.
How can women even go through all this? no wonder online dating does not work for guys, I am sure actually cute early 20s girls get hundreds of messages every few days
I should do one with ciara pics and quotes next. someone do the about me summary for her and ill do it
Every Incel should Actually do this so you see what it's like. For you it's simply an experiment that you can simply detach from but for women, this is every day. All day. No break. And not just on dating sites, also on Facebook and whatever other sites normies happen to use at the moment. No wonder women ghost, or never reply in the first place.
It is amazing. I had no idea, I live in atlanta but i made the profile in alabama, that city only has about 500k people in it.
how do women even use dating sites in big cities? they must get hundreds of messages a day. It's astounding
how does this work out for anyone, how do people meet after all this
It's pretty much a hit and miss. Eventually one of the messages stands out and then you pick that one, reply, and if it goes well you agree to meet. But of course the chances of it actually being a good match are slim, so often it doesn't go beyond a few dates. Lose/lose for everyone involved in my opinion (except fuckboys)
Men are thirsty, news at 11
congrats you've known what some men have known for awhile about females and the massive thirst of men. this is a huge reason females have such inflated egos and a 4 thinks she's an 8 and deserves only the best and anything under an 8 is invisable to her. when females ask where have all the good men gone they dont think of the 80% they dont even acknowledge in looks or for dating they're thinking of the 20% they find attractive. If guys werent such pathetic simps that thirst as hard as they do all the time for subpar females we'd have alot less chicks running around thinking they're all that and deserve only the best men on the planet but men wont stop simping and acting like desperate virgins for females all the time.
what does a stand out message look like?
I am just thinking of this mechanically. How can a guy get a date out of these sites when any message you send is just one of hundreds every few days? How does online dating ever work for anyone?
Something that is different from what everyone else sends you, that captures your attention and never, NEVER conveys neediness.
>How can a guy get a date out of these sites when any message you send is just one of hundreds every few days? How does online dating ever work for anyone?
You aim down ie go for single mothers and the like.
I've always said that all people should catfish as the opposite gender at least once to see what it's like from the other side. Guys need to see the results of their collective simping, orbiting, and white knighting. Girls need to see just how bad they would have it if they were their opposite gender looksmatch.
It doesn't work unless you either stand out from the other literal 1000s of choices or the girl simply doesn't participate in the culture.
his confidence and his haircut
>Something that is different from what everyone else sends you, that captures your attention and never,
I know it's hard to give exact advice but could you give an example of something that might stand out to you?
You're essentially in a rigged game, so you have two smart options:
>dont play at all
>find a way to exploit the rig, i.e. become a fuckboy or come up with super original, outstanding messages
>I should do one with ciara pics and quotes next. someone do the about me summary for her and ill do it
Do this and put her in a big city. I bet she would get literally over 100 messages per day
Being on a dating site conveys neediness, IMO, and sending the first message does it tenfold.
First of all, I'm a man so everything I say is from a perspective of being the sender or the friend of the recipient girl.
Having said that, examples that were successful in the past included for instance a guy that shared his grandma's cheesecake recipe; a guy who came up with a little story like "you have two doors in front of you. A - left, B - right"; or a guy who sent a pic of a lotto ticket and asked which numbers to cross.
fucking kindergarden tier shit. Women are pathetic and these men are below them.
And the user asking 3-4 times for a pre-made message to send to women from someone on here is the most pathetic.
This obviously only worked for the woman it was destined for, messages like this would probably not yield success if adressed to the average club stacy. Should go without saying imo.
But overall I agree, online dating is inherently pathetic and should be refrained from as much as possible.
at least you appear to have some iota of success. I am sad to say that back when I was dating I did as well with a "PSA"about being "infected" as the title, then some bullshit about a cuddle bug going around
>I am sad to say that back when I was dating I did as well with a "PSA"about being "infected" as the title, then some bullshit about a cuddle bug going around
cringe bro
titled: caution you may be infected as well.
kill me.
That's pretty pathetic my dude but I guess it's what this game requires of those who wish to partake.
I have a gf and even before that I only dipped my toes into online dating for a brief time, just to try it out. Honestly I feel bad for people who (think they) have no choice but to join this cruel game. It's only fun if you don't take it serious, and most often not even then.
sadly got my wife with it. And that's kind of he point. You used to be able to find girls like that 10 years ago on craigslist in a college town. Now you'd probably get laughed at on tinder.
Why "sadly"? Aren't you happy with your wife?
This fucking incel posting
>muh inflated ego
>How does online dating ever work for anyone?
I got dates online but not on dating sites or apps, but in language exchange, hobbyist sites and stuff. Dedicated datingbsitrs are frequented mostly by the lowest of the low.
i will admit that tinder is super easy for young women. i usually match with every guy i swipe on and get a few superlikes a day (not super pretty, just goth so it fills a niche). i've stopped using the app almost entirely though because the people on it are just too normie. i know that's shallow, but why would i give it up to someone i have no social or intellectual similarities to? My conversations with them never last
Just asked my gf this question
Girls are used to it, and can automatically sift this shit out. It's kind of like going to download something from a sketchy site and knowing what to click on to get the actual download and not some ad.
They are so used to it from facebook and twitter they know how to automatically after out the creeps. Beyond that you look at profile pics next
tips from her on not coming off like a creep?
i feel the same way when i go to a packed bar. getting girls is easy man. online dating is statistically 80-90% males.