Tfw actually have femdom gf

Honestly I don't give a shit if the girl is dom or sub.

You are a faggot and a liar which I will prove right now. If she's real, post a picture of her with a timestamp. You won't though because you are a faggot and a liar.

How does one visually prove that a female is dominant? There are flaws in your methodology.

I don't know if BDSM is actually able to be performed safely in a mental/emotional context by the majority of humanity.

I didn't ask for a picture of him being dommed, I'm demanding he post a picture of the girl in question. He won't do it because he is
1. A faggot
2. A liar
Coming onto a taiwanese cotton-candy processing board to brag... for what?

So it is the mere existence a female that causes you doubt? If you are so in denial then I don't think anybody here can help you.

>Then femdom is not for you, friend.
i hate arguing but fuck man
this is what i mean. it's always the people who think there's the "real way to be a sub" that think like this. you're either supposed to be a slave, or a dom yourself. you know it's generally good to play co-op games with another human being? if you were to play alone, it would be a lot harder to finish it. it's the same with a relationship. yes, in a hypothetical situation, where a girl knew me so well, that she would know what is best for me, i would let her lead the whole relationship alone no problem. but you see, i'm not trying to lose control of my whole life here. i'm just not an assertive person when it comes to sex and intimacy, so i'm undeniably submissive in that area. You seem to think that you should give up everything of your own to be a sub. But let's think about this. If you're in a relationship and the girl chooses that she is the one who decides how you're going to use your money, to me she's starting to be more of a controlling person and she's just using me for her own benefit. and while it is her being dominant, it's also a sign of a bad relationship. if i wanted to get used i would go out there and literally sell myself. I don't want to be her sex toy. I don't want to be her slave. And while those ideas are, not gonna lie, kind of hot in sexual context, they are not something that i'd actually want out of a relationship. but instead I want to be a human being that is loved and that gets to love another human being.

And i'm ready to bet my ass that any genuinely dominant girl, who is a working human being, would respect me for wanting to talk about things, instead of only take charge or only let go of it entirely, especially when we're talking about a RELATIONSHIP.
these are the times i wish i could sort out my thoughs so that i could actually write something convincing but autism yipee

I'm not in denial, no idea where you got that mess from. If OP wants to come here of all places and act like he's better than everyone then he should be able to back it up.

Well, I don't think we are arguing as much as you think.
>in a hypothetical situation, where a girl knew me so well, that she would know what is best for me, i would let her lead the whole relationship alone no problem
Because for me, this is not hypothetical. So, it is possible, and should be aimed for. It's fundamentally about trust, though. The other scenarios you describe don't have mutual trust, understanding and enjoyment as foundations.
If you both know each other well, and trust each other enough, then her being dominant is essentially co-op. I mean, somebody has to make the final decision on things, after all. But that doesn't mean there is no discussion. It's about respect (both ways) and trust; and then submission and dominance are just convenient, and enjoyable, ways to manage the practicalities of the relationship.

>But that doesn't mean there is no discussion. It's about respect (both ways) and trust; and then submission and dominance are just convenient, and enjoyable, ways to manage the practicalities of the relationship.
everything you described in this post is totally different from what i got from you before and i totally agree with everything you said there. i would totally let a girl make the final decision after discussing something. that would be also easier on me since i tend to get stuck with choices. but i wouldn't be ready to transfer money from my bank account to the girl's and let her just choose where we live instead of talking about it, which is what i thought you were standing for in the earlier posts. (of course not this exact scenario but you get the point hopefully)