>tfw actually have femdom gf
>all the guys on here are not actually subs and are just coombrains or lazy
>they don't deserve a femdom gf
>luckily they will never get one
It's frustrating to see such stupidity, but gratifying to know they will never succeed, especially not long-term.
Yeah it's very easy to spot, it's all I want a femdom gf but after that demands demands demands
clueless
I had a femdom 'gf' from here before, I wasn't into femdom at all though, we met up IRL and I put a collar and leash on her and made her call me master. She was utterly humiliated by it but loved it, later she admitted that she was only into femdom because she was insecure and felt if she sexually controlled the guy she wouldn't get cheated on or something idiotic like that. I'd take another femdom gf, only to break their shitty fetish.
This is not a thread for your fanfics, scrot
>after that
Before that, even
can you explain to me what a "real sub" is then?
Whatever helps you sleep at night, kid. I've fucked 4 femanons from r9k, I'd pump and dump them and they'd then write long rants about how much of an asshole I was on here. My online handle on r9k has been posted according to desuarchive over 600 times, many of them being women or orbiters pissed off that I fucked and dumped their precious waifu. I've been talking to one popular e-girl from here that's still orbited hard (her name starts with a B) several hours a day, it won't be much longer till that number hits #5. Women love getting put on a leash and fucked hard, if you think otherwise and you're a woman you're on several layers of coping mechanisms due to some sort of trauma. You'll realize one day.
Simple. Do everything your gf wants, and enjoy it.
"But that's what I want!", you will say.
No it isn't. Explain what you believe a femdom relationship to be like.
>Do everything your gf wants
i mean to me that's the whole point of it. it's femDOM. she's supposed to be in the lead. but that doesn't mean you cannot ask for something. while it can be about the girl deciding everything, it's not only just that.
>Explain what you believe a femdom relationship to be like
what i imagine a femdom relationship to be like:
-it's more frequent that the girl is the one initiating intimacy and sex
-girl is the one in charge during sex or whatever act. pace and positions are up to her. possible extras too, but those are usually better done after talking through it with your partner beforehand.
-the guy has to be able to be receptive about the girl. he has to provide something, for example moans, for the girl to have the drive to continue. he's not supposed to just lay there, and while that can still be femdom, it definitely won't work in a relationship.
-it can be the "girl takes it whenever she likes it" type. (while i'd prefer having more wholesome relationship)
honestly, i have really hard time imagining what it would be like. i just know the main component of the girl being more assertive.
-though it can be also possible that it's the "shy dom assertive sub" relationship where the sub is more straighforward about sex but isn't still in the lead.
though i'm not here to argue what's real femdom and what's not. in my opinion there are many different kinds of subs just like there are doms. and while slave is a sub, subs aren't always slaves. while it can be about the fact that she DOMs every aspect of the relationship, it's not really about that (and personally i'd prefer to be on more equal standing outside of sex and intimacy, especially if we were to live together since i think it's good to choose about things in life together instead of her choosing everything.)
Thanks for responding, but the crucial mistake is that you even said what you want. Your list should be replaced by
>Whatever she wants
And that's it.
>i'd prefer to be on more equal standing outside of sex and intimacy
Then femdom is not for you, friend. How can you say to a girl "I want control in this aspect, but not in this," and yet claim that you are submissive, and that she is dominant? This is just you being dominant. You can't give and take as you please. Then it's just a normal male-led relationship with slightly different sex acts performed.
What, are you too ego-driven to be a girl's bitch 24/7? Well, any genuinely dominant girl won't respect you then.