Tfw no femdom gf who wants to degrade and control me

>tfw no femdom gf who wants to degrade and control me
All the girls i've dated were really subby, i'm tired of it bros..

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simpbruz be like

>All the girls i've dated
Fuck off you ungrateful biology denying normalfag

I don't even want to be degraded. I just want someone that desires me enough to take charge.

>tfw the only people who have ever expressed interest in me are submissive males
i'm so fucking sick of you people.

You need to teach them the joys of being dominant, you achieve this treating them like queens. Everything they don't like to do or they don't feel like doing, you take care of it with a smile on your face, and of course you pamper her a lot. Soon she'll get used to boss you around.

I get your point but idk, my fantasies are more about someone dominating me so hard that i have no choice but to submit.
I don't wanna just simp endlessly hoping she'll take charge eventually.

Why degrading, men always want choking and degrading, never any wholesomeness. No sense of irony either. Femdom is just a bit of silly fun, like sex in general.
But no, it has to be all serious, no wonder most women take the lazy option of performing the porn.

>biology denying
Look at mr. Professor over here

When did i say i don't like wholesomeness?
You can get pegged and stepped on before going on a cute urban exploration date or playing Animal Crossing together, those things aren't contradictory.

You misunderstand, holesomeness in femdom itself. That means mostly not relying on porn for visual inspiration.
I suppose she making you do cute things you don't necessarily want and you're lighthearted enough about it to enjoy yourself anyway counts

Oh, i misunderstood then, i think.
Were you more just talking about gentle femdom then? I suppose i wouldn't mind that, though i don't have much experience with that kind of relationship..

How can you be a good sub, if you're too lazy to even do that. No femdom girl would want you.

That's not what i'm saying, i'm not unwilling to do things like that, i just want someone who would make me do them, instead of doing them for a random normal girl on the off chance that she might get into it more.

Get into blackmail then or directly with dommes because most girls will act like your gf, they are culturally trained to do so and won't change without "simping" a bit

Yeahhh i guess you might have a point..
Being blackmailed doesn't too bad either..

Degradation is no fun. I want to feel loved, respected and valued.

I completely identify with you until you brought up girls you've dated. Like what's even the point of trying when you know they're going to be subby? I'm waiting until a girl asks me out so I know she at least has a bit of a spark to her.

I mostly dated girls a few years ago before i really figured my sexuality out.
My last relationship was with a dude and that was nicer for the most part, but i'm just more physically attracted to women still.

I weirdly identify with you. Like I haven't had a relationship with either gender, but just from really thinking about it I can tell that I'm a straight sub. Women are much more attractive and I just couldn't be in a relationship with a dude for that factor alone despite wanting to be a bottom, even though it's basically impossible to find a female top.

It's okay user, i feel you. I don't think you should give up yet tho, eventually we'll find the right girl, i know there are girls who are into things like this as well.

send discord I will dom u user

W-what really..?

yes really so send me ur discord alrdy.

Oh uh well, sure.
TA5#1241

i just wish a girl desired me enough to act on her own, pull the moves on me, want to control my life for my own betterment etc.
i guess it's a femdom fetish

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being degraded would kinda suck
gfd or bust

I think the ideal scenario would start off cruel and then she becomes more gentle as you learn to obey.

>trips

i don't want something like that to hurt, i take things to heart too easily and i just want to be taken care of to some degree.

Fair enough, we all have different preferences.

i wouldn't mind trying it though, but i'm afraid i'd take it too much to heart, lol

why don't you try a switch user, would that work for u?

I think i could work with a switch but it depends on the girl for sure. I'd need to get along really well with her.