Question for Incels

yeah, I don't think even a man even started a conversation with me unless he needed something
That's not how life works.

I'm assuming people just put in effort and have compatible personalities. I cannot judge appearance objectively, for there is no objective concept of beauty. Since I've never been approached, I assume that means either (a) I'm unnattractive, (b) I'm not in situations that people would approach me, (c) or both.

I've never put in effort myself or approached any women. I rarely leave the house anymore, so I'm not surprised I haven't met anyone. I don't see what value I have and that's supported by the fact I've never been in a relationship. (This is chicken/egg logic, but it is still valid). I don't want to waste my and someone else's time with online dating. Worthless shit sitting on a shelf at a store just wastes shelving space and people's attention. Not everything will sell. All I'm left with is useless introspection at my perceived lack of value, so I might as well just focus on other things that are within my realm of control. I have long since stopped caring.