Virgin shows that she's not a whore that sleeps around.
One or two is fine but it seems like most women today are in the double digits. It's statistically proven that women that have more sexual partners are less happy.
This isn't just for women. I find men that sleep with multiple women disgusting too.
What do you look for in girls?
As an adult, I need a female that looks good with me in public. I don't mind what she wants to do when we're home. Needs to be a vaguely decent person. Keep in mind I'm a 6'pretty boy failed Chad, so while it seems like im asking for very little, it's a lot.
While I try to keep an open mind, imageboard culture and anime fucked my mind in the sex department, so I have a highly idolized concept of virginity (not counting rape or anything that was against her will of course, I would be fine in that case).
If she wasnt one, even if the relationship was perfect, my insecurities would kill it.
If I realistically want to get a gf, its something I will have to get over it, even if I am one myself, but its a hard thing to do.
That's fair. I know girls who've had boyfriends all throughout high school and in college and who slept around for a bit and I was always just jealous because I never had a guy remotely interested in me, but now I see that I'm "better" because I only had one bf so far and I really do not wish to have one night stands.
You're only better if you're actually attractive
I did notice that trend with virginity when I started browsing these boards. It's really unhealthy honestly. It's one thing to have had a partner or partners in long term relationships, and another thing to go from guy to guy on a weekly basis. If you find a person you like you should work on your insecurities, especially the ones stemming from this site.
So if a girl is attractive enough it doesn't matter how many guys she slept with?
>I never had a guy remotely interested in me
I highly doubt that. You either didn't notice or the guy was too scared to act.
>I'm "better" because I only had one bf so far
No you're better not "better" for not whoring around.
>I really do not wish to have one night stands
Based
Bait
Within reason, some girls you can tell they've been around the block just by how they carry themselves. I've fucked my share of women. I'm 30. I can't point fingers or shame a female for doing something I've done myself.
The problem is that its not just this website or the media, its that to a degree I already thought the same (thats why it sticked).
It wouldnt be romantic to loose it with someone who hasnt do it either? To explore that aspect of life together? Its sounds so cute, so ideal.
Hell, my parents lost their v-card with each other, they always said how nice that was. Why cant I have a similar thing with a girl?
But again, Im at an age that no female that I will be able to meet will be one, so its a desire I have to abandon, not because I dont longer agree to it, but because its impossible at this stage in life (which adds sadness and self hate to the topic).