Can femanons explain to me why this kind of mentality is so popular with women...

Nope, That's a red flag.

Based and true.

This, OR:
>I'm special, I'll fix him
>He's abusive towards me
>He just doesn't know how much I love him and how special I am
>*the retard falls for it and changes*
>He's not the same guy I fell in love with
>I NEED to cheat or leave
>...
>Oh wow, Look! Another abusive guy!
>loop

You either be the abusive faggot you hate or accept this is how they are and learn to cope with it.
t, abusive cyborg