Is the myth true? Could a vagina be an indicator of how many dudes shes been with?

>thats almost exactly the same thing. If you arent relaxed then you wont be turned on therefore you wont be wet or engorged enough to accommodate the penis.
I dunno. I've been very aroused while also being tense/nervous

its the arousal that allows for the process, not simply being relaxed. Like I find even if im happy and just chilling around the house then I still cant get anything more than a tampon in

I suppose that makes sense ye. Can't say I ever really tried putting anything much in when I'm not aroused (nor when I'm aroused really)