at what age did you accept the fact that you're going to be alone forever and no one will ever love you?
for me it was tonight, at age 26.
at what age did you accept the fact that you're going to be alone forever and no one will ever love you?
for me it was tonight, at age 26.
Sixteen Early twenties
There are 2 kinds of people:
1 - Date a lot of people but they all don't last
2 - Date less than a handful of people over their lifetime, (maybe 1 if they're lucky) and the relationships last
2 is more likely to lead to a happy ending.
Go out there and find out which one you are.
At 21 years old I knew it was over
Wokak's looking pretty sharp in that suit desu
Last year at 21.
It's not a matter of being 100% happy but trying to maximise the happiness ratio the relationship brings you tho.
When I was 23 and still a kissless virgin.
The problem is that some people still do seem to have some kind of love for me even though I've done nothing to reciprocate and actively isolate myself. Working towards totally relocating to get away. Comfy.
Not sure if we can really be considered "people" but
3 - Schizoids
Want nothing and get nothing in return
A couple months ago at 22
I've always innately known that I am destined to be alone. I'm an abnormal person, and I am also physically unattractive. So people literally have nothing to gain from my company.
I don't really blame myself nor the world anymore. It is what it is. Nobody wants an ugly person, or one that they cannot connect with. I wouldn't want me if I was someone else too. There are times when the loneliness crushes me, and times where all I can think about is romantic fantasies that will never be, but I've learned to live with it and I get fairly close to contentment sometimes. Nobody cares if I am comfortable in my own shitty skin, but it beats being suicidal.
>itt a bunch of
15, it was over before anything of importance really happened.
I'm only 20 years old but I don't see myself having a future of any sort, especially a romantic/sex-life future. I think it's already at the point where being physically touched makes me uncomfortable and cringe a little
>Have schizophrenia
>Have had and still have successful relationships.
No excuses.
>When I was 23 and still a kissless virgin.
I'll kiss you.
If you are attractive or have a vagina then you do not count.
I know a schizo girl who has been married. Twice.
I am a 6/10 at most and give zero fucks about looksmaxing
21-22 when i found out that by now is kinda expected for you to have a gf at least once by now also when i discovered that all the nerds i used to hang around in school are already in a relationship.
That's when it hit me, you are not normal mate.
I've gone out there; it is doubtful that I'll ever find a partner. Used to try, but at this point no longer care. My autistic interests will consume me and the transformation will be complete.
I'm not alone though. Looking forward to watching this shit show play out with my brother and my two friends. I'm 28.
>tfw after 30 it indeed gets better
Around the age of 18. I was really optimistic back then, even though I had never even had a friend. What was I thinking.
You have schizoid and schizophrenic confused anyway. They're not the same
I've been a popular guy surrounded by people laughing at my jokes, getting invited to parties, having popular girls ask me to prom. And I've been a loser who nobody calls.
How easy it is to step across the line between the two is surprisingly thin.
I realised at 11 that I would never be able to find anything near what love is.
I've had 1 girlfriend in my life and we didn't even like each other, we just said we were going out because we both thought it would be interesting to see how people's perceptions of us would change knowing we were in a relationship
we don't talk anymore but we were treated with a whole lot more respect by our peers at the time
Couple months ago
Realized I will probably never find a girl who shares similar tastes as me and isn't some hedonistic leftist roastie
Cut off all social media and don't talk to any of my friends anymore
Haven't talked to family since November
Basically hate my roommates
Been NEET for months
Eventually I'm going to muster the courage to take the shotgun in my closet and walk into the woods or something
You are free now.
Acceptance is liberation.
Wasn't really worth it anyway
Yep I feel this. What makes it kill is that I did it to myself. At some point I chose to grow distant from my friends, to grow weak and embittered. Now that I'm ready to reach out again there's no-one left, and it's been so long I don't have the skills to meet new people anymore.
i will NEVER be alone because i have myself for company. you just cant be arsed to cultivate self love. PATHETIC
I don't want you to be alone user. I want you to find true love. I believe we are all gonna get there someday but this world is so cruel I don't blame you for giving up on it.
If you are willing to believe me though, I have pretty good knowledge that things are going to change dramatically for everyone soon and for the better. If you hold out through these dark days you will be able to watch it happen and you will find love. Even if you can't hold on you will too I just wanted to tell you.
what knowledge are you talking about? where did it come from? how exactly are things gonna change?
>where did it come from?
From God basically. I have been through quite a lot since this whole coronavirus thing started. Seen a lot of reality bending stuff happen around me. I was able to experience a better world a loving world that embraces you and guides you to your true love.
>how exactly are things gonna change?
I don't really know the how but essentially there will be no more depression, violence, death, or evil. You will still be able to feel sad though because sadness itself isn't evil but all the evil is going to go away. The world itself is going to change even the dream will change physics will not work the same way it does. I know it sounds farfetched maybe even crazy but I really believe it. I really believe this world is the source of all our woes and it needs to change and will change.
I was still a child unironically. I just cannot connect anywhere close to anyone to actually have such a long lasting relationship, not that I am complaining though.