Because they're fucking lucky and were involved with people close to them, had lives, people know they existed and decided to fuck with them.
Some of us robots were zeroes forever. We didn't even get a second look. Tinder is a death sentence for us and so is anything else it will just mentally torture your ass until you are reduced to failure. Nobody fucking cares.
i'm a woman and there literally isn't a point. as far as i can see, women just kinda manipulate men - myself included. oops!
You aren't a zero until you choose to be a zero. You based your expectations off of those of a women, you are not entitled to the same support women are as you are wired to be more capable on your own. Women are wired to function in a society, what are the odds of you running into a genuine female hermit as opposed to a male hermit.
Tinder is a delusion that paints a false picture. Relationships do not work like tinder, and if you would actually try to learn how to form a relationship, you will begin to realize this.
Whether this poster is a women, or not, women do need more attention than men, as they are wired to communication and navigating society. Also keep in mind that this poster is baiting you for replies, as evidenced by reinforcing the weak argument of the OP built on emotion.