All you have to do is change yourself

Fear of change; fear of risk; fear or rejection; fear of failure.
Look at you, you're admitting it.
>"I am not going to be taken advantage of"
A confident man doesn't even need to think that, let alone state it.

>ever asked a married man
Yes. Ever get tired of shitposting?

Avoiding being hit by a bus you know is coming is not irrational

I'm happy with my life.
I could be happier with love, but that brings its own challenges and will most likely just bring more extremes - bad and good - to my life.

Ultimately, I realize that I can offer a lot to women. I'm independent, have a stable job with excess cash, and am emotionally ready to devote myself to someone.
I do the work to put myself out there. If no woman wants to take interest in me, then that is their loss.

I wont change myself to please people that aren't interested in the person I like being.

>sleepless nights
>dead sex life
>working long and difficult hours to support wife and kid
>wife has post-natal depression
>neither of you have free time anymore
>wife never shifts the baby weight and you get fat an unhealthy from lack of exercise

And you won't be, as long as you have that attitude. Cover your own ass first, worry about others second.

>All you have to do is change yourself.
Yes, but in order to fully get there I need to detach myself from the distractions that are weighing me down.

Upstate NY? If so, hi Robert

>This could be your wife
I don't want one.
>this could be your child
I don't want any.
>this could be your future
I don''t want this future.
>But you are ruled by fear
Yes, the fear of god.

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You're kidding right, most electrical work in nyc is cucked by ibew and those fucks are hard to join. Transit dubbed me into oblivion, i might as well join the marines. But at the end of the day i'll be poor because of the constant failure in my plans.

no, jew york city.