if you were interested in them, then you'd be more interested in the stuff their interested in to have things to talk about
How does one stop being the guy that people avoid and start being the guy that people go after?
Xavier Miller
Cooper Phillips
I wish someone would give me company regardless and selfishly that they made time for me and not anyone else, can't really have that if they don't enjoy doing it i guess unless i make someone my hostage but i don't want that.
>be interesting
What if i'm not interesting? I think the way things are conveyed, as in the conversation is more important than the content itself most of time.
I don't know but it sounds kind of artificial, isn't being the right type of person inherent, if not that it's made up of everything they did unconsciously ever since they were born, people just do thinks they like and acted the way they want to and it makes them interesting.
Ayden Flores
If you interest yourself than you're interesting to yourself, which is all that matters. From there you can talk about stuff that interests other people, but if you barely care, than you mineaswell move on. People don't seek out other people just because they exist, it's because they're entertaining in some way.
Easton Gomez
How can i be interesting to myself? That's weird, i don't talk to myself i just am, if you mean if i think i'm interesting then that would be a hard no. If i don't care about the other person or the subject? I can't say i would care about every subject but i can't make an interesting conversation regardless, it's less about the subject or the interest and more about the way it is said itself and the conversation, so it would be personality, social skills, likeability, charisma, inteligence or whatever else not if i'm knowledgeable or interested in a especific thing. I think people seek people because they have some value to them, i'm most cases yea it would be entertainment, just existing in the way you used is kind of weird because by existing you are doing more than just that, most people produce value just by the way they exist and are.
Adam Martin
maybe don't ask the reject board
earn money and social parasites will naturally suck up to you
Andrew Myers
>reject
But not really, most people here have people that want them, often multiple friends, etc, etc, maybe someone knows a concrete answer as to how, or just want to talk i don't know, also, i don't want to be sought after because of money that wouldn't be me they are after then it would be money.
Brandon Wright
nobody would care about an avatarfagging animeposter with nothing to say but spread his insecurity
you might attract gay coomers but nobody with self respect would want that so work on having self respect first, get a job and earn money
Asher Morris
I have a job and 5k saved up, i also spent thousands on a new computer, i'm still buying peripherals and i'm going to build a new table, this arrived today, you're full of shit if you think that's advice. What self respect even entails?
Carter Rodriguez
not watching gutter trash like overlord to start with
Andrew Wood
interest is subjective, by choosing to pursue anything, be it video games anime whatever, you're choosing something because it interests you most, thus making yourself interesting to yourself. It's inherent, people only start getting confused when they forget that.
Applying your self-content self from that to any conversation, whatever commentary you naturally apply will be commentary that interests you. If someone's talking about snowboarding and your brain thinks, "that'd be awesome if you could eat a ramen bowl while boarding", but you hold it back because you're assuming weebery is inherently uninteresting to other people, yet by doing that you're forgetting it's interesting to yourself, so you make a choice, are you this person's slave or are you you?