I am dating my online chinese language instructor ama

Ah I see. If not for the whole pandemic thing i'd recommend going there for a few weeks. I had the best 2 weeks on my life when I visited.

>Have you guys met your GFs?
Online ones no- Interpals is not a good place to find stable people. I always made plans but things fell apart beforehand. I had 2 chinese gfs while in grad school (science degree so 90% of the school was chinese, I didn't have yellow fever yet). First one was like a 2 week fling, one after that was a 3 year emotional rollercoaster of sex and abuse that lead me to this website. I was doing well when vicariously dating and videosexing chinese girls for about a year. But just learned long-term gf got engaged 2 weeks ago and so I am back to being a depressed robot in full force.

Also, tell me about your gf. How did you meet? Whats she like? Parents cool with it?

Yeah ir really is an inopportune to meet her like this. But thats the hand of fate for You.