I am dating my online chinese language instructor ama

Go outside,chant to your name while spinning in a circle and slam yourself to the ground. Duh.
Why do i need to lie?

I did this for awhile. Just wait til you start getting the questions about moving to China. I suppose right now she is acting like she'll come live with you?

I am actually telling the truth this time. No lies.

Don't beat around the bush. Go ahead and say what you want to say.

She will want you to move to China with her, dummy. I "date" chinese girls off interpals, what few ones aren't bots that is. What province is she from?

No i understand what you are asking. I am saying that whatever you are trying to lead up to you should go ahead and say it. Do not misconstrue this as me being hostile pls.

There is no build up. And no one is being hostile. I simply stated that I date chinese girls online too and they all eventually want you to move to China with them. I am wondering what stage you are at with her. I also want to know what province she is from. I have dated girls from different provinces and I am curious if there are some stereotypes or generalizations I can glean about them.

Yeah she has and i have asked her but i havent got an answer yet.

If this is true, she's gorgeous, OP. I'd kill for a beautiful girl like that.

I have dated girls from Foshan, Guanzhou, Kunming, Weihai, and Beijing, last two being in person dating. How long have you been dating her? How did you guys meet? Do you skype call or use wechat? Does her parents know shes dating you? What do they think? Are you committed to making this long term? Are you excited about it? Has she asked you any questions about your financial situation?

Classic stupid white American. The perfect men for chink girls

Also, even though that picture has a Yas Forums filename I am lead to believe thats a wechat picture since chinese wechat girls love to censor shit using those lip shapes. So I have the benefit of the doubt you aint a larper.

Girl i posted isn't even chinese what are you talking about?
1.about 3 months
2.met her on hellotalk actually
3. We use wechat to video call most days
4.yeah
5. Definitely
6. Very much
7.yeah. i am not a neet if you are wondering.

If i am so dumb why do i have a 110 IQ?

>i am not a neet if you are wondering.
don't think you are, its just real big in their culture about dating up or at the same level in their socioeconomic class. Are her parents cool with it? how old is she? Her parents will be the biggest roadblock on you guys becoming a thing- white western men dating their daughters is like finding out your daughter is dating a black guy. Has she asked you to meet her parents yet? even over video call?

1. I have asked her about it and she said he parents are fine with it.
2. 22,same age as me.
3. And yeah they have seen me. I have talked to her mom once before.

>I have talked to her mom once before.
that's a big deal to them. Congrats dude, she's really into you. You made it. Send her a gift, use S.F. Express if you don't want your shit stolen. Chinese girls love to be showered with gifts. She'll probably show you her boobies.

I also have a mainland chinese gf. I met her IRL in January before the virus shit got bad.

Have you guys met your GFs?

I mean i have already seen them along with agina :DD so i guess i am on the right track.

No not yet. I told her once i get my own place i can see about getting her to come visit though.

Ah I see. If not for the whole pandemic thing i'd recommend going there for a few weeks. I had the best 2 weeks on my life when I visited.

>Have you guys met your GFs?
Online ones no- Interpals is not a good place to find stable people. I always made plans but things fell apart beforehand. I had 2 chinese gfs while in grad school (science degree so 90% of the school was chinese, I didn't have yellow fever yet). First one was like a 2 week fling, one after that was a 3 year emotional rollercoaster of sex and abuse that lead me to this website. I was doing well when vicariously dating and videosexing chinese girls for about a year. But just learned long-term gf got engaged 2 weeks ago and so I am back to being a depressed robot in full force.

Also, tell me about your gf. How did you meet? Whats she like? Parents cool with it?

Yeah ir really is an inopportune to meet her like this. But thats the hand of fate for You.