sorry for the long story
>be getting really close with girl
>mutual attraction
>like we'd cuddle and hug every time i saw her off when she'd go to her dorm
>mutual friend decides to throw a party
>we both go
>she tries to hook up with me but i couldn't since i had to go early
>skip about a month later
>we're dating
>turns out she hooked up with some guy at the party
>i'm mad and feel both hurt and insulted
>she's trying to gaslight me saying that we were nothing at the time and that the hookup meant nothing to her
am i in the wrong? technically she's right because we weren't dating but still, i feel like she's in the wrong. she didn't even apologize she said "im sorry you feel that way " and im still a fucking virgin
Am i in the wrong for feeling like this
Easton Ward
Jaxson Cook
i don't think there is any right/wrong in this situation
have you looked into attachment styles. i think you were a bit more emotionally attached to her than she was at the time of the party, which is why she didn't take it as seriously as you did. she's not in the wrong, because she doesn't owe you anything, regardless of if she is/was your gf.
Logan Fisher
youre in the wrong user, you werent together at the time and you even turned her down the same night
Jordan Thomas
should've made it more clear you wanted to but I bet you were sheepish and made her think you were too afraid or disinterested in her.
Jose Diaz
Shes not in the wrong. You just need to ask yourself if you want to be with someone who hooks up with random guys at a parry. It sounds like it isnt for you.
Michael Butler
yh i think that was it
i feel so stupid though, because the next time i saw her it was like nothing happened, which led me to continue the relationship
Wyatt Nelson
Would you like this woman if she didnt have a hole to fuck?
If so just take it slo and go though with it. dont be a fucking beta.
If you just horny do what ever gets ya dick wet my dude
Elijah Lee
Technically shes right but if she really did like you it would have been easy for her to keep her legs closed that night but she didn't. Her not apologizing tells you she's wasn't and probably not as into you as you believe and I bet if the same thing happened this weekend and you weren't there she would open her legs for another guy.
You're in this little over a month and I suggest you end it.
Levi Roberts
If a girl really likes a guy she wouldn't be fucking somebody else. She wouldn't
Jordan Jones
End it my dude
She doesn't give a fuck clearly