Why are men more than happy to settle down with an average looking girl but average looking girls only want Chad?

you havent seen all the bombshells walking around with dumpster-fire looking boyfriends you blind fuck?

Fun fact: he had two serious relationships in his life. First one broke it off because he was too busy with getting his studies/career settled and couldn't give her enough attention. Second girl was a really great girl, until she told him she caught feelings for a colleague. He wanted to fight for the relationship, but she decided it was better not to. A week later she was in a relationship with the colleague.
After that he decided not to emotionally invest in girls for a while and just fuck girls when he goes out.

Cannot relate. My cousins are not close to me. I haven spoken to a third of them in years