My first gf was truly in love. Because I never had a gf before (was 14) and she didn't look horrible (wasn't fat but for some reason had two chins), I gave her a try. She was so sweet and intimidated by me, but also admited me some dirty shit like "I stalked you, I know where you live" or "I made ourselves in the sims and they are fucking right now". I really wanted to like her but couldn't accept her second chin, I offered her a pendant and then ghosted her. For a long time I felt like shit because I knew it made her sad but when I rethink about it, it was better to end it early and not steal her first kiss/virginity when I clearly didn't like her, she would have suffered more the longer it would have lasted.
I crossed her path two years ago, she looked at me with the same eyes she used to, and still had that second chin so I guess I won.
Do you think anyone has ever liked you
Yeah I know they have. I got asked out by 6 or 7 different girls in school.
Plenty have said they did, but none of them have ever truly known me.
>it was better to end it early and not steal her first kiss/virginity when I clearly didn't like her, she would have suffered more the longer it would have lasted
You did the right thing user, although ghosting might have not been the best method.
A few people, yeah. I never got anywhere with them though, cause i lack confidence, and anxiety issues. It's a shame really, any other person would have turned any one of those situations into meaningful relationships, but I couldn't. You can't change the past so there's no real point regretting it i guess, though I do wish i was different.
A girl liked me when we were in elementary school. I found out in high school that she still liked me, but I didn't really notice. I wasn't interested in her, anyway. Had I been a Chad I could've pump and dumped her, but I'm not like that.
I was also the most popular guy in an online community for a few years and one of the girls begged me for the longest time to meet up, but I just didn't think we were compatible.
maybe one or two, I can tell the stories about both of them if anyone cares
Why did you leave me? Were those bitches worth it?
Yes, in year 3 of highschool, one flat-faced Korean girl flirted with me and shit for a good 2 weeks.
By that point I had told myself that I'll never get a girlfriend because when I looked at my friends all they did was be with them and take up all of their time from chilling with friends. So I ignored her to be with my friends more.
And then my friends all got girlfriends and left. Now I don't have either.
>inb4 normalfag
Yes at least three times.
I'm a 27yo kv due to not acting on it.