Whats funny is you think he was your best friend, you were literally nothing to him.
Best friend ghosted me after almost 7 years of friendship
i have seen a lot of those types and they all, without fail, ended up terrible. for them mid-life crisis develops into an existential one, until they develop hatred of women precisely because they can have them, and realize they are too old to have a nice young family.
Dream home? Imagine a huge house with only you inside, and an occasional friend coming to visit you - he bitches about his wife, talks about kids, work, while you still live your youthful dream and do nothing. What do you even talk about? You don't.
Most of these types have no friends for a reason unfortunately. Now couple that with the fact you can't trust a single woman these days, this is the future in a way.
We live in a youth-obsessed culture = what you described - sex, changing women, barbecues, drinking - is fit for either a young person or an animal, not for an ADULT 40 yr old man.
They all end up kinda pathethic and sad, and women are not the answer either.
What can i say, welcome to the future i guess.
you can send them a message explaining that when the time is right
it might feel cringy sending it but imagine being on the receiving end
it's called cluster Yas Forums