/r9gay/ - #986

You just have to be up-front and ask. Don't try reading that deeply into things, not worth it

are people on /soc/ all normies? i seriously find it hard to speak to anyone from there, but it's a lot easier to talk to anyone from Yas Forums

Oh nice, hope you two are having fun to be honest. And that you get the bf you want.

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His son is the same age as me except he has a job, ,friends a boyfriend, and is in uni.

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humblebragging faggot dad is gayer than his son. god i hate reddit

At least he's fine with his son being gay.

>Lo and behold, they're both asleep, snuggled up together, in my son's bed
god i fucking want this more than anything. I just want to hold someone

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AAAAAAAAHHHHH GIVE ME A FUCKING BOYFRIEND TO CUDDLE WITH ALREADY AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH

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where is my hairy bf

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I don't like to assume things but this feels like a fujo shitpost.

Ok guys, i have a problem. I've always been straight, but recently (6 months) i started to fantasize about having a bf (I'm male). I also masturbated on gay porn. The thing is, how do i know if I'm really into guys, and if those feelings are true and not a product of my loneliness (I'm a khv, I'm cute but im so fucking autistic, that every girl who tries to approach me proceeds to run away asap)?

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>Prep x jock
>Jock bottoms
Patrician.

going out with guys is way easier, just download grindr and go on a date, i considered myself straight until i did it and literally got a boner just from sitting across from him

he's more than fine, now he can brag about it on Reddit and get shitloads od upvotes. hell, he might even try starting a youtube account vlogging his experience of being a dad of a gay man. fuck this shit

Maybe you're just bisexual but with a preference for girls. Some idiot in this thread will probably claim you're prisongay but if you have romantic feelings for guys then thats not the case.

>he's more than fine, now he can brag about it on Reddit and get shitloads od upvotes
He's using a throwaway account, you're just being overly cynical for no reason. Most dads hate the fact that there son is gay

just got into valorant today, been having a lot of fun with that
also slay the spire is cool
how about you user?

I guess, but he sounds useless and meek anyway. how do you have to ask how you can let your family member know you're fine with him being gay? and ask the internet of all places?

>i considered myself straight until i did it and literally got a boner just from sitting across from him

hot, please tell me more

well, we were having dinner and i got a hard on, then as we left the place i found out he got a boner too so we went to a park and i sucked his cock and let him cum in my mouth, and of course swallowed it

>how do you have to ask how you can let your family member know you're fine with him being gay?
Kek you're right about that. I have awful social skills but even that seems pretty easy.

>i considered myself straight
>had a grindr account
Something doesnt add up

well, i got a grindr account cause i knew i wouldn't be able to tell unless i actually dated a guy and tried the sex and i did it and it was cool and nice!

how does he react to your neediness

Start small and watch how he behaves with varying levels of neediness

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bannerlord, seems like I'm a rarity among fags to like more stereotypicaly masculine games.

i want to get bannerlord but i dont have any money rn ;-;

I'm playing Bannerlord as well user. You'd better be Batannian or else I won't kiss you.

>not being a (Western) Imperial Chad,

i don't even like playing games at the moment. not horny either, i'm dying

>online relationships always slowly fall apart
>literally autistic and unable to approach people irl without knowing them for a bit
I'm actually doomed aren't I?

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these threads belong in /lgbt/
fuck off faggots

How do I autism to my bf about if he loves me or not without looking like a sperg or ruining the vibes

>nearly 1000 threads in
>he thinks we're going to move
seethe harder

Ask him if he sees it as a real relationship and talk for a bit then if he says yes say but do you actually love me

I'm in the same boat. I just want to fuck but my autism literally makes conversations kill my boner because they're so stressful. wish I was memeing

Do you fuck?

Do you JUST want to fuck but can't? Or do you want more but are stuck in a fuckbuddy relationship?

Not the guy you are responding to but I cannot get a boner from watching porn but I got a straight and quick 8 inch boner from someone holding my hand.

i'd like a fuckbuddy at first and progress if we get along. thing is i've never fucked. I have a nice cock and I've only ever gotten compliments but honestly, not knowing what to say and what the other person is thinking stresses me out so much i don't want to continue. hell I don't even want to fap anymore, not for a couple hours at least

I've been straight all my life, never felt attracted to male types, a few futanari/trap fetish when I discovered Yas Forums but it was just a kink at best. After an 8 years long relationship that ended extremely poorly with my ex gf, I felt devastated for two good years.
I've always felt like women were cold-hearted people, never showing affection, playing hard to catch and being secretive and manipulative, and to find that girl was like a miracle to me, but she was a cheating whore in the end, on top of never showing a huge lot of affection, she'd rather ask for affection but never give any.

I was feeling so lonely and desperate that I ended up on some discord with boys ERPing behind anime pictures, at first I thought it was a dumb meme and nothing more but after spending some time with one of them in private, I found that he was a very affectionate person,feminine in some aspects, insecure, soft, but very kind and cuddly, as far as internet convo goes. I don't know if it was just a joke for him at first, but six weeks went by and what started as some stupid thing slowly turned into a weirdly cute relationship, he'd talk to me about whatever he was spending his time on, video games, anime... always asking me about stuff and saying he loved my company... he'd say nice things to me, like how cute I am and how much he wanted me to grab him in my arms, stuff like that... eventually it got to the point where he'd call me his love and so on... he'd even say stuff like "love you" before going to sleep and it felt really nice, especially with all the anime girl shit that he was spamming and using as profile picture, I felt a bond to this anime girl that was actually a guy, and of course I was reciprocating, pretending to be a dude flirting with this anime girl dude...
Then I got scared, telling myself that I was getting catfished, I didn't even know what he looked like, I thought that maybe he was saying all these cute things for fun, that he was being ironic... (cont)

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>>online relationships always slowly fall apart
what constitutes a online relationship? flirting and playing games?

So after a few days of not being online because of work I told him we had to stop chatting because it was getting weird, I told him that I was straight but spending time with him was getting confusing and with my heavy depression I'd rather not suffer anymore. At this point he already knew what I've been through with my exgf. He said that he was feeling a strong bond between the two of us and that he didn't want to lose me and reading that from me made him cry. Maybe I'm retarded but I wanted to believe that he was genuine so we kept chatting, it's been maybe two or three weeks now since that incident. He was shy but still sent me a pic of him, dressed as an anime girl cosplay in a japanese high school uniform with snapchat filters to make him look like a real girl, and it didn't help with my conflicted feelings. I'm so fucking confused, did I fall in love with that guy? I just want to hug him and protect him, make him feel safe, as if he was a girl. Even his voice is kinda girly and all shy. I feel lost. Also there's the part where I met him in a discord full of lewd ERP, does it mean that he's not trustworthy? Don't these people prey on straight guys to make fun of them and have sex with weirdos on Grindr? I've already been with a dirty slut that destroyed me, I'm so fucking scared of going through this again, especially not with a guy catfishing me. What should I do?

Sorry for the blogpost but I really don't know who to ask, I'm a very lonely person as you may understand.

sometimes i'm so sad and lonely it makes me want to puke
i feel like a complete failure

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obviously ask to jack off with him on cam so you can be totally sure the picture he sent is him

make sure to tell him to find a permanent marker

I mean we talked a bit on snapchat, sending pics back and forth while he was in his cosplay so I'm pretty sure it's him on the pics, or maybe it was his sister but that'd be really far-fetched.

>bi, but only comfortable getting romantic with women
>start talking to a gay guy in discord. he acts cute and i find him attractive
>we're getting very flirty and i love it
>realize that i don't know if i could ever advance this into a real relationship, and i might just be leading him on
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I don't want to break his heart if things get serious. but he's too cute and i can't stop

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I've done the ERP before but I'd still be devoted to one person if they were my bf

>doesn't want to slam his cute butt
okay fag

Oh boy DO I.
But I don't want to use him for sex if I don't love him.

>But I don't want to use him for sex
okay fag

>Having a potential sweet relation with someone you can have fun with, discuss for a long time and feeling good
It's not specific to being gay or straight, relationships are always a bet you win you get happy you loose you get sad.
If you rationally think you can have a good time why the hell are you not trying it?

I'm too depressed to play anything really.

>FB_IMG
You deserve to be alone really.

>tfw when your ex won't respond to you, and you don't know what you did wrong
>all you want is to know they don't hate you, and that they still wanna be friends, but you're scared that with your clingyness you made them hate you
God fucking damn it i hate being alive right now, i miss you so much pierre
Please, just tell me you're alright and don't hate me
Why do we have to be so far away?

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