Anyone else kinda glad they don't have a gf?

If you are looking for that truly loving caring wife that you can come home to, spend time with, and make a family with you aren't going to find it. Women don't like that type of shit and if you go into a relationship with that goal you're setting yourself up for failure. It might feel a bit empty at times but it's nothing compared to spending decades with a woman that doesn't love you

It really is unfair since she won't have to worry about impressing me
Why would she? She's the catch
Why would she really care about what I want or need? I'm not Chad
I would have to keep her interest and when I would inevitably fail and lose her or Chad comes and takes her and I lose her still

thats why robots get bfs or become the girlfriend. I suggest you go on Grindr and take the jump to get TOPPED if you are ready for boisex

>I definitely miss the intimacy
If you've had a gf before you need to leave.

Ugly and below average looking people are on tv all the time, now more than ever. For every Chris Hemsworth there's a Jonah Hill. For every Joe Jonas there's a DJ Khaled.

last guy turned off the lights and I wanted them on. i was thinking he didn't want to see my body but it might be he didn't want me to see him

you need to leave those incel echo-chambers
*leaves earth*

How long are you even supposed to spend with a gf? Apparently a couple of hours a week isn't enough. Where do you even find time for that?

Today's young men aren't terrified of sex. I have had sex. It is no big deal. The first time is somewhat nervous the first time then you get into it easily. Today's young men are terrified of flirting. The culture of flirting has drastically changed in the last 10-15 years.

A friend of mine started chatting up a receptionist at the university and asked for her number. She blew up in his face and said that was completely inappropriate and wrong.

A combination of tinder/internet dating and metoo feminism has created a culture where a lot of people think you're not supposed to chat up/approach women/flirt. You're supposed to meet online these days.

Online dating/tinder massively disadvantages men because most men are not very physically attractive or handsome; in the past these men could get by on charisma, talent and social skills. These days, they are fucked.

gross, gurl. I hope you next'd that little boy

>Plus she would probably make fun of my small penis
sounds like ecstasy

Based post except for the part where you said
>I have had sex.

just broke up like 4 hours ago. i feel like shit.
i still love her and I already miss her but it had to be done, it wouldve been worse the longer it went on
i know this isnt the right place for this but fuck man, i let her become a part of me. the bed is gonna feel extra empty tonight

The only good aspect of it for me is the lack of drama.
Like, a I look at most relationships from people close to me, and every couple of months theres a fight or a volatile emotional situation that always make me think "thank god Im an autistic looser".

But it doesnt change the fact that I would do anything to be on their shoes

That emptiness does suck
But imagine getting a gf and having to go back to that emptiness because she left you
Or you caught her fucking a friend or your boss
I'm not sure how I would last the first night let alone rebuild

Femoids:
>Fuck countless skilled Chads with 8x6 cocks.
>Laugh at male virgins
>Laugh at short men
>Expect John Sinns tier of sex skills
>Will juge and laugh of any dude who is not at 1% peak sexual performance
"OMG why are men terrified of sex?"

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Fuck this. Its a hell of a rigged game this days.

Im glad i dont have a gf but only cos i have a bf

Im confident that we can force white males out of the gene pool. They are easily manipulated and we can create lots of fake graphs to make them scared to talk to girls.

How the fuck do I get a gf now that this covid virus has quarantined everyone?
My last year of uni as well, so there goes that as a place to meet people.
As for a workplace, don't people always say to not shit where you eat?

even women are being sexually deprived because of the lockdown.
for a man it's twice as impossible as before.

I welcome some drama in to my life just to fucking liven it up. I want the pain and everything. Anything to feel something.

>you clearly act in real life exactly the same as you do in those online echo chambers. Thats way women dont like you sweetie, they can just sense it.
It amazes me that people still say shit like this

Somebody with charisma and more than one brain cell isnt asking a receptionist for her number. People meet through friends or at social events and bars. You can flirt with a receptionist but you have to be self aware and recognize if shes interested long before you ask about numbers.

Tinder has a tiny user base and less than 11% of young women have ever gone out with someone they met online. 80% of active users are males, and we can argue most of those males are ugly and socially retarded.

Lots of people do meet on Instagram or group chats but very quickly hang out regardless of how they look. People are much more comfortable forming connections without strings attached or commitments, so its actually easier to flirt and hook up now than it was before.

The advantage people had before, and this is the reason people were much bigger whores in the 60s and 70s, was that there were no other distractions at home or options to be alone. So everyone was outside looking to fit in somewhere. For a suburban cunt born in 2000, most of his life was probably indoors, since now its considered safer to be at home than mingling with strangers.

Ask any one of these virgins if they feel more comfortable laying in a field with a bunch of girls or laying in bed playing Mario. Back to the charisma piece, its easily learned and you just have to work for it

Kids are great women suck.
T. Two time divorced user

>forming connections
>without strings attached or commitments
So not a connection at all.

>Ask any one of these virgins if they feel more comfortable laying in a field with a bunch of girls or laying in bed playing Mario
I'll take the field. Lying in fields is comfy.

you mean low iq cuck who picks fellow low iq wahmen

>Ask any one of these virgins if they feel more comfortable laying in a field with a bunch of girls or laying in bed playing Mario
Are these supposed to be similar in effort?

> Instagram
> "regarless how they look"

This is shittiest post Ive read all week

>Somebody with charisma and more than one brain cell isnt asking a receptionist for her number.
It was normal back in the 80s. Talk to anyone over the age of 40. Culture was very different back then. True, woman had to put up with A LOT more. My mother has some horror stories about agressive/creepy men but she says it was seen as normal back then.
>People meet through friends or at social events and bars.
This is becoming much less common. People have a smaller circle of friends and go out less. Also, even flirting at parties can, by some, be seen as inappropriate. Really depends on the culture and age group.
>80% of active users are males, and we can argue most of those males are ugly and socially retarded.
Yes, most people on dating sites are male. This is not surprising.
>The advantage people had before, and this is the reason people were much bigger whores in the 60s and 70s, was that there were no other distractions at home or options to be alone. So everyone was outside looking to fit in somewhere. For a suburban cunt born in 2000, most of his life was probably indoors, since now its considered safer to be at home than mingling with strangers.
And 80s, 90s, 00s. You are right about these points.

Who gives a shit about sex just jack off

I wouldn't mind having a good one, I'm curious to know what its like, but I would never try to get one.

females see cooming as a connection

but yeah you're right

>Anyone else kinda glad they don't have a gf?
i do have a gf though. sex whenever i want, raw, creampie.

>have sex
It will be unfulfilling and you'll feel just as shit, if not worse, afterwards.

For most lonely cunts it's not sex that they're missing, it's intimacy which is more than just sticking things in holes. It's unfortunate.

>how can i convince a female to have sex with me without being involved with her for a long time when im depressed and boring? i clearly cant.
Prostitution lad. It's called prostitution.

Retard
Thats good, life will be good to you.
What?
Not recognizing that culture has changed in 40 years is not a sign that you have learned any level of charisma or social skills

I wouldnt worry so much about absolute numbers but I disagree that social circles are getting smaller. Theres a bit of a generational and socioeconomic divide in how people form groups but theres no doubt that these groups exist. People who want to be social will still be social and have no trouble finding relationships over time. Staying on the subject, many many young men are in fact irrationally scared of socializing and dont believe it is worth putting in the time because a safe alternative exists. We dont have any reason to be absolutely convinced that one person or another is going to remain single because of dating apps or looks. Its like saying everybody gets skin cancer because the sun exists.

>life will be good to you
Wish it'd hurry up because its been a bit of a dick so far.

I like the concept of having a gf more than actually having one

I would like to be in a fulfillung long-term relationship with a girl. However, my small pencil dick literally fulfills nothing in a female and leaves both of us with disappointment. Guess I'll just die alone.

The default mode for a guy in the relationship is to have no emotion whatsoever. That way you don't give the ego boost she's looking for and continues to crave you.

I would only want it if I was in a good position in life. I don't want to share my current life with someone.

>I wouldnt worry so much about absolute numbers but I disagree that social circles are getting smaller. Theres a bit of a generational and socioeconomic divide in how people form groups but theres no doubt that these groups exist. People who want to be social will still be social and have no trouble finding relationships over time. Staying on the subject, many many young men are in fact irrationally scared of socializing and dont believe it is worth putting in the time because a safe alternative exists. We dont have any reason to be absolutely convinced that one person or another is going to remain single because of dating apps or looks. Its like saying everybody gets skin cancer because the sun exists.
What the fuck are you on r9k for? Heck what the fuck are you on Yas Forums for? You sound pretty normie and over 25 years old.

I don't need a gf or sex. I just want someone that cares about me to be with me.

Buy a hooker obviously if sex is what your after.

Weve been in positive vibes only mode for at least 6 years. Guys with no visible emotions are considered creepy.

For the memes and the habit. Same as anyone else

>People who want to be social will still be social and have no trouble finding relationships over time
That just isn't true. There are a lot of socially stunted people out there that still naturally crave social interaction but don't know how to go about it and are too scared. I'm like it to some extent but not nearly to the same level as some people that have a panic attack thinking about talking to the girl at the checkout.

jonah hill isnt ugly though

Absolutely, as much as it pains me because there's this girl that I really want to be with but I know it's likely just going to end in pain as it always has, so I'm resisting the urges.

If she thinks it is creepy then that's on her and that's why it isn't going to work. You shouldn't take it seriously because all relationships are bound to fail anyways unless they are trapped by something like kids, family ties, financial agreements, etc

what dream world do you live in?

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This is so fucked up its unbeliavable, it really shouldnt be this hard to find a fucking girlfriend, there are supposed to be an almost equal amount of women and men afterall SO WHAT FUCKING GIVES?

I should clarify, you want to avoid the fear of socializing more than you want friendship or intimacy. For most people, wanting something is equal to actually pursuing it.

>so its actually easier to flirt and hook up now than it was before
That's why young people are having less sex than their parents did at the same age

I'm not really sure what you're arguing here
I don't think that the casual mindset towards relationships is new so I don't know how it's easier now than it was then

Sharing your life with someone average feels pointless for a lot of people, including women. Men and women don't have anything in common, life is a constant set of chores, society is miserable. Easier for them to just get a cat and sleep around with Chad, they don't need men anyway.

On tinder there are 4 times as many men as women, and women are much more cautious about who they meet online anyway. Even the women that use tinder are generally older or just looking to chat