I'm pretty sure if I were to let him in and just tell the other guys that I didn't want to be mean and its a one time thing that they'd understand. I mean, people kill themselves over stuff like this. If I made them aware of that they'd put up with it for the one time I'm sure.
1. your gender
>lmao go with the "cool dudes" and after 2 years see the outcome
cringe
Male
Yes, I would never be able to live with myself afterwards if I said no
Male
Yes
Actually did something a bit like this at uni two years back. We had a course where there was a guy with bad speech impediment and a bum leg, so he had trouble speaking and kinda dragged his right leg when he walked. When we had to form groups for a project, he was kinda left hanging, so we asked of he would join our group. Later he said that he was going to just straight up ask the teacher if could do the work alone, as he was used to it. Felt bad for the dude.
I hate this because I'm in a similar situation. The guy isn't as hopeless as the one described by OP but he considers us best friends while I try to keep him away from the other people I know. I only ever meet him 1on1. If he showed up at my door like this I would die inside. So my answer would have to be...
>male
>yes let him in because I don't have the heart to send him away, then sit there and hate myself for being such a softie and always attracting these people like some sort of one-eyed king
>implying high school me wanted to go to the "cool" parties.
Yes
Male
But I'd tell him to play it cool.
>male
>yes
Though I have been that guy at the door several times and haven't gotten in.
Depends how old I am
I'd always let him in but my game plan once he's inside differs the older I get.
I'm pretty charismatic so it wouldn't be too much of a problem but I can imagine everyone would have more fun than me, simply because I am automatically now on damage control mode
>gender
male
>do you let him in
yeah just tell him to don't sperg out also it aint that hard to find ppl to party even if its not with the "cool kids"