>unless ur good in most ways this will get you rejected. Mate, I've been into plenty dates and more often than not, it's the girl who pays for me. I mean, if she pays one time, it's OK to pay back at a second date. As long as you don't spend more on her than she did on you. If you feel you'll get rejected, work on yourself first to be "good in most ways" then the matter of rejection shall lies only in your hands.
>Aren't you supposed to pay on a first date? If you want to be considered as a free meal, sure. Paying for her show that you care too much about her and the date, just be casual and act like you would if you go out with a friend. >I also gave a her a bottle of a wine that she loves. I was hoping to share it with her The wine was a good idea however the setup was bad. First off, I would find a way to not need my car if I bring any alcohol. Then don't offer her the bottle tell her you have some nice wine and you could open it up with her and share it. So she just got a free bottle of wine and a free meal at your expense lad. That's an experience most men have. Now you won't make the same mistakes twice, ok?
Elijah James
>buying her dinner and a bottle of wine only for her to bring it home to chad This is too much, holy fucking kek
>Aren't you supposed to pay on a first date? It wasnt a real date you idiot. She just used you to get a free meal and some wine. Let this be a lesson. Ghost her ass and just ignore her at work. Dont end your life because some roastie used you fucking faggot
Ryan Brooks
>If you feel you'll get rejected, work on yourself first to be "good in most ways" then the matter of rejection shall lies only in your hands. >work on yourself first bad advice for someone aged and stuck in work and life problems
Lucas Clark
The only women who expect you to pay for them on a first date are women trying to take advantage of you. Any rejections you get from not doing so are therefore meaningless
Elijah Jones
You have to quite your job and find a new one. That's too sad user. What kind of job is it?
Kevin Gonzalez
that's fucking tragic user but you gave me a good laugh
Chase Russell
i paid something like 60%/40% on my first date and it went ok, but it was fucking 10 years ago. In adult life you need resources and money, my man.
