Don't read this thread if you don't wanna hear about e-relationships

Write her a poem. See how she responds.

It can be a lot of things dude, but maybe she doesn't care. If you constantly ghost eachother and she's a recluse type, nothing so far looks like it's gonna stick.

It's probably a terrible idea.

what the fuck would that accomplish?

We didn't actually ghost each other, I just didn't wanna explain what happened but it wasn't anything bad.

If she is really shy though, she may have to work up the courage to talk to again. Which may explain the long breaks. You could either call her out for it or pretend nothing is wrong. It could go 2 ways. She makes better attempts to talk like a normal person or she could just dip completely.

You're spending your time complaining here, which is an even worse idea.
Do it you colossal faggot.

>Talked to plenty of women that put in effort
what platform lil nigga because these """"Egirls"""" on discord say otherwise. but who knows maybe my luck is just worse

Well maybe you're asking yourself too much questions. Don't go into this shit thinking only about yourself. You should never try to get with someone when all you care about is yourself, your own interests and how she sess you or think about you. Not saying that'S what you do, but just saying it's dangerous.
Invest yourself in people you genuinely care about and if she refuses to open up and be receptive to your attempt at trying to get through to her, it's best that you distance yourself. A lot of people fail romantically because their head is always filled with all these self-centered ideas of self doubt and anxiety from not being able to understand someone's reactions or behavior and being afraid there's an unseen negative undertone.

If you don't know, you don't know and if she won't tell or if she won't be bothered to put in her part of effort, you gotta let it go. This is as true for love as it is for friendships. Now try not to fill your head with so many unnecessary questions.

I'm not OP and I say this because even with the best of intentions, writing a poem to a girl who barely has any attachments to you makes it seem like the most desperate of attempt from a trully naive individual. It's not a good idea. Don't try to lead OP into making a fool of himself.

maybe your luck is worse or maybe you're terrible at picking women to talk to. I mean, granted most of the girls don't put in effort but I have had a lot that will or have.

Good post, I agree. That being said, I still don't get the reason for making a poem.