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>Start talking to shy hikikomori girl online
>We hit it off for a few days
>Mutually ghost each other for no real reason
>Few months later start talking again
>It's me carrying every conversation
>She almost never asks questions
>She never messages first
>She randomly drops conversations
>BUT she almost always replies at some point, even if it's hours later
I genuinely can't tell if she's just being autistic and is just bad at conversating or if she isn't interested in talking to me but is too nice to tell me to fuck off. I'm too much of a pussy to confront her about it. What the fuck should I do to tell if she's just autistic or she's being nice to me? I'm more or less venting because I can predict the majority of the responses to this but i'll see how it goes.
Don't read this thread if you don't wanna hear about e-relationships
Just ghost her user, shes most likely not interested and secretly has tons of guys talking to her or is just doing things and doesn't give much of a fuck to you.
Pretty predictable response. The last part is what gets me though. I feel like it's possible she's just isolating herself super hard but idk if she doesn't care about me at all. When I first message her she will typically respond fairly quickly and if she drops a conversation, will pick it up hours later. I don't think you do that if you give 0 fucks about someone. I don't fucking understand and it drives me crazy and overanalyzing shit
this happened to me before she said she was super busy all the time, but I am pretty clingy too but she was prolly busy lol
She doesn't really give me excuses since I don't ask (too much of a pussy) though she'll say she fell asleep sometimes which are typically reasonable since we'll occasionally talk super late at night or w/e but like I said, she's a hiki, so the only shit she'd be doing is browsing internet, playing games, watching something, or sleeping.
she's prolly doing something. If she takes time to responds it means you mean enough to her not to ignore you
She's likely doing other things while talking and gets distracted. I'd say she's not interested in you romantically, but enjoys having someone to talk to when she actually feels like talking and is just tolerating you at other times.
Hmm. It still bothers me regardless. I don't really have anyone to talk to and am tired of the shitty game of /soc/ where you roll the dice to find 1 decent person after adding and trying to conversate with 50~ people. No one on r9k adds each other unless they're thirsting for femanons or are just desperate for attention.
Fuck, this hit me a bit hard. Probably the most plausible thing. I knew she wasn't interested in me romantic we kind of talked about that in the beginning. Still though, wish we could talk more but I also don't want to spam her like a clingy retard, even if there's a good chance she'll respond to me again.
e-relationships are almost always a meme my nigga. these bitches dont want to do anything. in a time where you can voice chat, play games, watch movies/videos/tv together, etc easily. they just cant be bothered to because that would require actual effort and thats just too much to ask. ive they almost never really care and will just ghost you once they find another person to b an attention sponge for.
typical response, try again bro. Talked to plenty of women that put in effort.
Write her a poem. See how she responds.
It can be a lot of things dude, but maybe she doesn't care. If you constantly ghost eachother and she's a recluse type, nothing so far looks like it's gonna stick.
It's probably a terrible idea.
what the fuck would that accomplish?
We didn't actually ghost each other, I just didn't wanna explain what happened but it wasn't anything bad.
If she is really shy though, she may have to work up the courage to talk to again. Which may explain the long breaks. You could either call her out for it or pretend nothing is wrong. It could go 2 ways. She makes better attempts to talk like a normal person or she could just dip completely.
You're spending your time complaining here, which is an even worse idea.
Do it you colossal faggot.
>Talked to plenty of women that put in effort
what platform lil nigga because these """"Egirls"""" on discord say otherwise. but who knows maybe my luck is just worse
Well maybe you're asking yourself too much questions. Don't go into this shit thinking only about yourself. You should never try to get with someone when all you care about is yourself, your own interests and how she sess you or think about you. Not saying that'S what you do, but just saying it's dangerous.
Invest yourself in people you genuinely care about and if she refuses to open up and be receptive to your attempt at trying to get through to her, it's best that you distance yourself. A lot of people fail romantically because their head is always filled with all these self-centered ideas of self doubt and anxiety from not being able to understand someone's reactions or behavior and being afraid there's an unseen negative undertone.
If you don't know, you don't know and if she won't tell or if she won't be bothered to put in her part of effort, you gotta let it go. This is as true for love as it is for friendships. Now try not to fill your head with so many unnecessary questions.
I'm not OP and I say this because even with the best of intentions, writing a poem to a girl who barely has any attachments to you makes it seem like the most desperate of attempt from a trully naive individual. It's not a good idea. Don't try to lead OP into making a fool of himself.
maybe your luck is worse or maybe you're terrible at picking women to talk to. I mean, granted most of the girls don't put in effort but I have had a lot that will or have.
Good post, I agree. That being said, I still don't get the reason for making a poem.
"Being shy" is not an excuse online and is basically never the case.
That poem guy was a troll, why the fuck would you write a poen to some neet hikki girl you never even fucking met over the internet, shes clearly just sees you as a guy to occasionally talk too and to get rid of her loneliness, she doesn't wanna be your gf or fuckmeat mate.
>she doesn't wanna be your gf or fuckmeat mate.
I never said I wanted that or asked about it
Not gonna lie, i feel offended at first but well. Romance is dead
Offended by what? oregn
oh then why you care about her so much and make a thread about her, shes just a stupid smelly fucking neet lmao
She's messaging 7 or 8 guys all at once and you're just one of them. People like her are just attention whores who want to feel wanted, but don't want to put any effort into reciprocation. Drop that bitch and put your effort into someone who's worth it.
I know from personal experience. Stop being a beta orbiter and you'll feel a lot better.
>I never said I wanted that or asked about it
So you want to be her therapist or some shit? I don't understand the point of talking to her if she does not gib bobs and vagene.
Because like I said i'm tired of trying to add people. We actually had a lot of good conversations before and we still have good ones now.
I'm a stupid smelly neet as well, so that doesn't bother me.
Typical response, try again.
excuse me trying to be infected
lmao then just don't worry about it, talk to her and keep doing what you retards have been doing. giving small responses while she sends nudes to hundreds of guys
Like I said, typical response.
Is she legitimately autistic? Or depressed?. Cause that would explain it.
ttypicall reponseeeee xddd, im gonna watch her neet smelly infected pussy get boxed by some e-nigger hahah they don't understand tee heee, fucking kill yourself you disgusting fucking faggot and stop shitting up this board with your fucking filthy garbage threads
Doubt she's actually autistic but she is the latter. Probably should've mentioned that...
fu7cking why am i so fuckinng infected this stupid fucking smelly neet and his dumb whore neet gf got me infected and insane so much YOU FUCKING CUNT HOW FDUCKING DATE U DO THIS TOO ME I UFCKING WILL FUCK BOTH OF UR NEET PUSSIES UNTILL I COOM AND FEEL THE ROOM WITH OXYFGEN HOW DARE YEE HOW DARE YEEE
Thanks for the bumps
oreje
shut the fuck up you fucking nigger faggot, im going to fucking rape ur mum in the bum you stupid insufferable ugly miserable cunt. you are a diseased stain on soiciety and should have never existed, every breathe you take is a complete fucking waste, i fucking depise you, you are garbage, you are fucking piles of garbage upon garbage, i hope you choke and die on cum you insufferable lonely miserable neet useless fucking faggot, good fucking day.
Go on
oregalf
i dont know what else to say i fucking hate my life and i wanna die, why am i so angry and raging at some retard on a chinese imagine board like Yas Forums, what the fuck is wrong with me why am i so fucked up why cant i have friends and be normal with gf, why do i always think of suicide and can never do my school work, why why why why am i so fucked up fucked, i got no skills and im a stupid fucking neet why did god made me holy fuck i wanna die so bad please fuck i hate living, this is torment, i hate this life please gooodddddddeq
h-haha. Sorry to hear that user, wanna talk about it?
She's not interested retard. She never initiates = not interested. She always initiates = crushing on you.
The half ass answers are just what people do to be polite.
This doesn't matter. My ex was depressed and she still messaged me everyday and confessed.
Drop a less predictable drone response next time, thanks.
I guess. i'm just a young faggot who doesn't know what to do with his life and have mental problems like suicidal thoughts and depression, I got anxiety problems too and hate looking at people in the eyes, i got a fucked up eye condition that i have to take medication for most of my life and I suck at everything I do, I fucking hate living, I wanna kill myself but don't want to hurt my family and there is a online girl i'm planning to meet, she unironically wants to meet me and fuck me and i dont wanna lose that chance, thats the only thing thats gives me hope in this world, sorry for the insane ranting, i'll go now.
That shit sucks, I get it, i've been there and if you're underaged (don't tell me cuz it'll get you banned retard) seriously I totally get it, it's sort of normal.
You can fix that stuff. It's fucking hard but you can. First step is probably looking into depression, if you can get a therapist or see a psychiatrist or something it should at least help you have some idea of any mental illnesses an then you can go from there. You probably don't suck at everything you do, getting good at something takes time no matter what it is. Try stuff out, see what appeals to you, and spend time on it.
This isn't exactly the most greatest advice ever and it's fairly general but hope it helps a bit. We can get through this shit user. We can make it
i'm 19, and yeah thanks for the advice, i just wish it would stop, the thoughts and voices telling me to do it, i don't know what i did to deserve this but thats how the world is, you fight to survive.
why do you think i talk to you? do you want to meet up and fuck or not?
>but is too nice to tell me to fuck off.
LOL no such thing
if she bothers responding then you are in like flynn so stop whining and keep initiating unless you want to get TOPPED in which case feel free to be a passive bitch
>she isn't interested in talking to me but is too nice to tell me to fuck off
Bingo. Don't be sad. e-relationships have no purpose unless you're planning to meet. Which you're not.
Not a femoid but I do at least some of that stuff, it's just anxiety and a general tendency to put things off for me. It goes like this:
>someone says something to me
>won't know how to reply
>don't immediately reply
>longer I wait the weirder I feel like I'm being
>becomes even harder to finally reply
One of my friends and I even have a running joke where he'll just greentext how long it took me after I finally respond if it took me a while. I've been working on it as I really dislike being a dick and ghosting people like that but for me it's never really about them it's just me being an autistic faggot.
>Typical response, try again.
Online girls get attention just for having a hole and/or a cute voice. Honestly the hole isn't even necessary, traps get a ton of attention too.
What makes you think that you're special to her when she's probably had the same meaningless interaction with dozens of guys?
You're not allowed to escape the truth just because it's not what you wanted to hear.
The whole criteria sounds like me
Yeah...I feel it. Just dunno if that's what's up with her, could totally be possible
fem or male like the guy above?
If she's too shy to tell you to fuck off she's probably too shy to ask for that fat introvert dick, user.
Hang in there, from the sounds of it she initiates and that's always a good sign.
Hey user, I used to do this. I wasn't talking to anyone else just didn't know how to continue
you make it sound like you don't do it anymore, how did you fix it?
>how did you fix it
I don't talk to anyone anymore.
Oh...haha
oreg nl
How many of you have already given up on trying to escape this lonely hell?
Have you learned nothing about orbiters in all your time here?
If she was interested, she would have messaged you a least a few times every month on her own volition
replying hours later is pretty much messaging on your own volition, at that point you don't need to actually reply.
>Mutually ghost each other for no real reason
>Mutually
Nice cope.