Fembots, why don't you have a BF? What is legitimately preventing you from having or acquiring a BF?

fembots, why don't you have a BF? What is legitimately preventing you from having or acquiring a BF?

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Women do not have problems, fuck off

If a woman can't get a BF but wants one, how is that not a problem?

THIS! but i do love making problems for women

She can get one she CHOOSES not to have one

Just like men choose to not get a gf right

to this day i have not met a m*n worth pursuing

No, men have to compete. Women just have to signal they are available and wait for competing men to approach them.

SOURCE FOR THE PICTURE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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you made me curious so now i'm asking what determines that one is worth pursuing in your opinion?

Sorry don't have it, I think it's an edit anyways

Fembots should have gfs instead

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tfw unironically becoming a prison lesbian

Give a good reason why

Because most robots look like this

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>2070
>on your deathbed alone, nobody to comfort you
>getting harder to breathe
>take your last breath
>think to yourself that at least you didn't give that fat fuck a chance

Because every romantic interaction that I've had with men were horrible and left me traumatized. I don't want to have anything to do with men anymore. I just want them to leave me alone.

because i'm an apathetic shithead

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Because most robots look average but slightly awkward because of bad camera angle?

That guy doesn't even look bad, lol wut. Put on some cream to clear up those blemishes and make his beard neatly trimmed and there should be no problems pulling in women.

lesbians don't belong in this thread

Story?

>implying you look any better
just because you have that knife wound of a pussy between your legs doesn't make you special

> I don't want to have anything to do with men
Stop being such isolated recluse and try to make some male friends, I'm sure that'll help in understanding other men and I'm definitely sure it'll not be traumatic.

>Got molested by a guy once (no penetration but he kissing and touching me)
>Stalked by a guy 3 times older than me
>The only guy I ever dated (only online because it was after experiences I mentioned before) turned out to be a psycho who was just using me and other girls
I didn't used to be isolated. I tried to be sociable and it didn't end well for me. I know men who seem okay but I'm too scared to risk it

>mfw high empathy man with many female traits mentally
>masculine appearance
>tfw no traumatized gf that wants to go slow and wait many months for sex and just spend half a year watching movies, holding hands, and wholesome non-lewd cuddling
Small consolation is that girls don't like me like that for whatever reason so it isn't a matter of "what did I fuck up" and more a matter of "I hate everything".
Slightly more comforting situationally but worse overall

>tfw no traumatized gf that wants to go slow and wait many months for sex and just spend half a year watching movies, holding hands, and wholesome non-lewd cuddling

The thing is, taking it slow wouldn't even be enough to gain my trust, now that I know that there are guys out there who are willing to wait because they can get sexual stimulation from other girls in the meantime.

Not a fembot. Why do men openly compete? It's so pathetic, even if I'm speaking to someone objectively superior to me. People are just people, all guys should do is just not speak their mind and not get hung up on other people.

Not downplaying those experiences but you seem really thin skinned if those have put you off from dating completely. There are tons of shtity men out there but you should use those lessons of shitty experiences to help you better pick those shitty men out and know to avoid them.

I understand the fear though, it's not that simple. Just hate seeing people, both male and female, have a few bad experiences ruin their hope completely

just SPEAK their mind* (not sure why I typed "not")

It's literally in our genes.

But it's unnecessary stress to get hung up on someone (a women) who's allowing a bunch of guys to compete for her. Even if you get her, marry her, that's her personality and it'll be constant worry. The act of chasing a women just seems pathetic to me

>you should use those lessons of shitty experiences to help you better pick those shitty men out and know to avoid them.
I still don't know how to. The guy who turned out to be a psycho was really sweet to me. I thought he was just some shy and awkward dude who I could relate to. He was the first guy I trusted after my previous shitty experiences and he turned out to be the worst one. It terrifies me that there are people who can fake their entire personalities.

An actual boyfriend? Well.
>shy and timid personality
>live in a country where people don't talk to strangers without a proper reason
>no friends and not a part of any social groups
>don't want to use (hookup) apps
>uncommon interests
>don't go out too much
>no LDR policy
>not ugly, but not beautiful enough to get a bf just with my looks

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What did he fake

>live in a country where people don't talk to strangers without a proper reason
Something tells me you're from northern europe

He faked being a good person. He pretended to be sweet and wholesome while other people know him as a completely different person

>Why do men openly compete?
Because women are undeniably selective about which type of man they want.
>People are just people, all guys should do is just speak their mind and not get hung up on other people.
If this was enough for most successful men, they would do it. They don't because it's not.

I have a terrible personality and am too emotionally distant to connect with anyone.

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Yeah, dunno what to say. You can never truly be safe. All you can do is try and hope until you lucky.

Where did you meet the online guy? Honestly Yas Forums is the last place you should be if you're using it to find online friends. I've met a lot of nice guys but r9k is definitely one of the places with the most amount of legitimate psychos and manipulators prying on gullible, unexperienced, and innocent women

>The act of chasing a women just seems pathetic to me
For most men, the longer they live alone, the less bearable it becomes. They have to constantly try with any woman they can because letting a chance slip by might mean next x months of loneliness.

Probably because they're cumbrains and desperate. Women are still people end of the day, so if you talk to them without precum dripping down your pant leg, they might come to like to as a person. Or I guess you could get some toned abs and flash some bennies and maybe you'll have your turn with cumslut stacy.

Sounds like you really need to get to know someone instead of having superficial encounters. Easier said than done but once you know someone, I don't think you need to worry about that, at least that is how it has always been for me. Just keep a sharp eye for red flags and trust your gut. I've helped a lot of females deal with this before, and it gets better but you have to take chances and put in the effort. Good luck.

>Probably because they're cumbrains and desperate.
Most people can't avoid desperation after years of loneliness.
>Women are still people end of the day, so if you talk to them without precum dripping down your pant leg, they might come to like to as a person.
Or they might not. That's besides the point though, because the pressure is on you as a male to do the approaching and present yourself as interesting.
>Or I guess you could get some toned abs and flash some bennies and maybe you'll have your turn with cumslut stacy.
I don't see how this is relevant to my point or why you insist that only sluts have standards for men.

nah it's just cumbrain thought, I don't care about that
> t. male

What makes your personality so terrible

Ah, I get it, you don't have anything useful or insightful to say, thanks.

Not really, I don't have anything originally insightful to say

>loneliness
Define: loneliness
In this instance it'd probably be "lack of a hole to fuck", because otherwise you could just talk to literally anyone.
>Or they might not
So what? Not everyone likes everyone. The pressure isn't on you as a male to approach for sex, rather the pressure is on a loner loser to approach people to make friends. If you're not doing anything or don't look comfortable, people won't approach you.
>why you insist that only sluts have standards for men
Toned abs and bennies are having "standards for men"? That's basic bitch npc mentality right there. A guy can be in average shape and attract a girl. A guy can be not rich and attract a girl.

I got my first bf at 27 years old. I have almost crippling shyness, so meeting people is damn near impossible for me. We had worked together for almost 3 years before I was brave enough to say hi or good morning back to him. He was so incredibly patient with me and my awkwardness. I'm so grateful everyday that I have him in my life. I really hope everyone else here can find someone as wonderful.

It was here unfortunately.
I don't have superficial encounters. People can still surprise me after I think I know them. And I cut people off as soon as I see that they can be shitty. I'm really sensitive to any mean behavior and I don't even trust most of my friends.

>In this instance it'd probably be "lack of a hole to fuck", because otherwise you could just talk to literally anyone.
It means lack of companionship. Is English your secondary language?
>So what? Not everyone likes everyone.
You're not following this discussion at all.
>The pressure isn't on you as a male to approach for sex
In the overwhelming majority of cases, men have to initiate sexual encounters.
>rather the pressure is on a loner loser to approach people to make friends. If you're not doing anything or don't look comfortable, people won't approach you.
Many loners are held back by their particular circumstances - social anxiety, ASD, etc. They might have interests, but that doesn't mean people will like them enough to spend time with them.
>Toned abs and bennies are having "standards for men"? That's basic bitch npc mentality right there.
Yes, we are discussing what most people are like. Once again, you're not following.
>A guy can be in average shape and attract a girl. A guy can be not rich and attract a girl.
Yes, and it's very unlikely that he will. Evidence from dating websites shows that there is a definite preference for certain types of men in terms of looks. Evidence from psychological research shows that there is a preference for men displaying pathological personality characteristics.

>needing companionship
All that separates a "companion" from any other person is sex.
>sexual encounters
That's if you're a fuckboy, wandering the streets with twiddled thumbs looking for some girls to approach. Or you could go do something with your time and talk to people when they appear, ie not being desperate.
>loners are held back by their particular circumstances
Which need particular solutions, vagina isn't the cure-all elixir.
>we are discussing what most people are like
Agree to disagree.
>Evidence from dating websites
Modern dating websites are all about looks, not everyone uses them seriously because its hookups, so that's irrelevant.
>preference for men displaying pathological personality characteristics
Like what

What's stopping you from NOT making these garbage threads?

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Are you really complaining about garbage on this trashpile board?

>All that separates a "companion" from any other person is sex.
No, not really. Female companionship can involve sex. This is besides the point though, so I'm not sure why you even mention this.
>That's if you're a fuckboy, wandering the streets with twiddled thumbs looking for some girls to approach.
No, that's how most dating services oriented towards short-term dating work. Hardly anyone wanders around for that.
>Or you could go do something with your time and talk to people when they appear, ie not being desperate.
This isn't possible for many people because of the mentioned personal circumstances, and also their location. And it doesn't counter what I said about men having to initiate.
>Which need particular solutions, vagina isn't the cure-all elixir.
Nobody said it is, but having an active sex life is (for the utmost majority of people) mentally healthier than not having one.
>Modern dating websites are all about looks, not everyone uses them seriously because its hookups, so that's irrelevant.
Depending on where you live, dating websites might be your only choice at meeting people around your age, because there are no regular events which facilitate socializing that you can attend.
>>preference for men displaying pathological personality characteristics
>Like what
Narcissism, Machiavellianism and Psychopathy.

Because they are fat and want to fuck chad

I feel scared whenever people get too close to me. Unless I really, really trust them. Many times, guy come on too stong and it ends up putting me off as I'm worried all they want is sex.

If you are average / below average looking then yes, I mean common, who can stand being exposed to public with ugly gf / bf. face te truth sweetie...

dont leave the house. parents are extremely strict. i live in the middle of nowhere. not alot of guys actually want to live the lifestyle that they say they want, eg the trad larp of them making all the money while the girl stays at home and like, wipes a toliet and puts mustard on a sandwich and thats it.

lmao wow ikr, I wouldn't want to date an ugly average robot like you.

If people are still surprising you after you think that you know them, you are probably having what I'd consider superficial encounters. And it probably isn't the healthiest thing to cut people off just because they are shitty, although I guess it depends on what you mean by 'shitty'. Everyone is shitty to a varying degree, and to build a real friendship (and relationship for that matter), you need to be able to work past flaws. And if you don't trust your friends, at least to some degree, they are not your friends in my eyes, and would be relegated to superficial encounters/acquaintances.
>I'm really sensitive to mean behavior
Why? How so? Are you overly sensitive to conflict and criticism or something?

feminist cope

>I'm not sure why you even mention this
You said the particular loneliness you're talking about is a lack of companionship. I said that the difference is sex or no sex, and the reason is because any person (whether male or female) is your friend if you hang out with them. If they're female, sure there's a better chance you'll get to know them well if you both click together. But that doesn't change the fact it likely started as just dialogue, friendship of some kind. If it went from 0 to 100, it's a hookup likely and likely won't last since the people don't know eachother well.
>Hardly anyone wanders around
They're at clubs, bars, some social areas, I've seen them. But that was an extreme example for a loner. Most people aren't loners and have friends who they go out with, maybe all their gender, and the group might more easily draw other people to them and create alot of dialogue. But if a group of guys go to the mall, in the back of the mind they're probably thinking "hope I run into a cool girl".
>This isn't possible for many people because of the mentioned personal circumstances, and also their location.
The circumstances you mentioned can be improved through trial and error once the person is okay with getting over the comfort of avoiding that and staying to themself. Unless the person is a hermit there's likely other people around, they're in a town of some kind, etc.
>it doesn't counter what I said about men having to initiate
Sure after knowing a girl for a few weeks a guy might have to ask her out for a movie, or go in to makeout, or ask her to come over. But that's step 2 at the very least, doesn't have to be step 1.
>having an active sex life is mentally healthier
True. Being a rock climber is also healthier than being a gamer, but of course both of those things aren't just a switch to flip on and off.
>dating websites might be your only choice at meeting people around your age
Is that your situation? You could talk to neighbors more

its because im a lesbian. fucking breeder

>Narcissism
Better to be a narcissist than to be desperate
>Machiavellianism and Psychopathy
Might make them more interesting people I guess if it's tamed to some extent. Not everyone cares about being a good person, that's kindof a different discussion honestly.

Genetic failure that will never get to breed chad

lel neh i'm a qt but mentally ill
but yes maybe my standards are too high
u the one's who cause the trust issues, think they're entitled to pussy

sorry but fat / ugly is not qt

Every single man I like turns out to be a tranny, wants to fuck trannies, or is into some other type of disgusting degrading and misogynistic porn like facial abuse, BDSM, or anal.

I'm a romantic person who only likes happy sex, wants kids, wants to get married, wants to stay married, and expects a mutually respectful relationship based in passion and communication. As such, I've decided to become either a spinster or a lesbian since men can't into love. 3D males are the only ones that are aesthetically pleasing and not completely amoral and pornsick.

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Im not entitled to pussy, but Im just not going to fuck a ugly girl who does not do shit about her looks, I trained fasted in order to grow taller, I improved my jawline and my chin, I made nice muscle definition, so I guess you need to work on your self if you want a Chad, same goes both ways.