If people are still surprising you after you think that you know them, you are probably having what I'd consider superficial encounters. And it probably isn't the healthiest thing to cut people off just because they are shitty, although I guess it depends on what you mean by 'shitty'. Everyone is shitty to a varying degree, and to build a real friendship (and relationship for that matter), you need to be able to work past flaws. And if you don't trust your friends, at least to some degree, they are not your friends in my eyes, and would be relegated to superficial encounters/acquaintances.
>I'm really sensitive to mean behavior
Why? How so? Are you overly sensitive to conflict and criticism or something?
Fembots, why don't you have a BF? What is legitimately preventing you from having or acquiring a BF?
James Morris
Noah Harris
feminist cope
Grayson Butler
>I'm not sure why you even mention this
You said the particular loneliness you're talking about is a lack of companionship. I said that the difference is sex or no sex, and the reason is because any person (whether male or female) is your friend if you hang out with them. If they're female, sure there's a better chance you'll get to know them well if you both click together. But that doesn't change the fact it likely started as just dialogue, friendship of some kind. If it went from 0 to 100, it's a hookup likely and likely won't last since the people don't know eachother well.
>Hardly anyone wanders around
They're at clubs, bars, some social areas, I've seen them. But that was an extreme example for a loner. Most people aren't loners and have friends who they go out with, maybe all their gender, and the group might more easily draw other people to them and create alot of dialogue. But if a group of guys go to the mall, in the back of the mind they're probably thinking "hope I run into a cool girl".
>This isn't possible for many people because of the mentioned personal circumstances, and also their location.
The circumstances you mentioned can be improved through trial and error once the person is okay with getting over the comfort of avoiding that and staying to themself. Unless the person is a hermit there's likely other people around, they're in a town of some kind, etc.
>it doesn't counter what I said about men having to initiate
Sure after knowing a girl for a few weeks a guy might have to ask her out for a movie, or go in to makeout, or ask her to come over. But that's step 2 at the very least, doesn't have to be step 1.
>having an active sex life is mentally healthier
True. Being a rock climber is also healthier than being a gamer, but of course both of those things aren't just a switch to flip on and off.
>dating websites might be your only choice at meeting people around your age
Is that your situation? You could talk to neighbors more
Jaxon Nguyen
its because im a lesbian. fucking breeder
Lincoln Wood
>Narcissism
Better to be a narcissist than to be desperate
>Machiavellianism and Psychopathy
Might make them more interesting people I guess if it's tamed to some extent. Not everyone cares about being a good person, that's kindof a different discussion honestly.
Aaron Barnes
Genetic failure that will never get to breed chad
Benjamin Carter
lel neh i'm a qt but mentally ill
but yes maybe my standards are too high
u the one's who cause the trust issues, think they're entitled to pussy
Nicholas Reyes
sorry but fat / ugly is not qt
Lincoln Carter
Every single man I like turns out to be a tranny, wants to fuck trannies, or is into some other type of disgusting degrading and misogynistic porn like facial abuse, BDSM, or anal.
I'm a romantic person who only likes happy sex, wants kids, wants to get married, wants to stay married, and expects a mutually respectful relationship based in passion and communication. As such, I've decided to become either a spinster or a lesbian since men can't into love. 3D males are the only ones that are aesthetically pleasing and not completely amoral and pornsick.
Adrian Cook
Im not entitled to pussy, but Im just not going to fuck a ugly girl who does not do shit about her looks, I trained fasted in order to grow taller, I improved my jawline and my chin, I made nice muscle definition, so I guess you need to work on your self if you want a Chad, same goes both ways.