im a complete normie and this advice is terrible
you faggots always view yourself as some sort of intellectual yet dont have the first idea what factors play into mental health
quit larping as some health professional
im a complete normie and this advice is terrible
you faggots always view yourself as some sort of intellectual yet dont have the first idea what factors play into mental health
quit larping as some health professional
I'm reasonably successful except for the fact that I haven't had a girlfriend in my entire life. I generally have healthy habits.
Yesterday, I saw my friend who I hadn't seen since highschool. He told me that he was in rehab for being addicted to pills, he had been to jail for disorderly conduct and that he had a baby momma plus a current girlfriend.
This advice is objectively a bunch of horseshit assuming your ultimate goal is to stop being an incel. Depending on how you set your goalposts, it absolutely may be true that society is the problem and not you. Anyone who says otherwise is an 80IQ retard.
These threads never justify why they assume that you're not already doing basic shit like brushing your teeth twice a day. Exactly what are you assuming about the fucked up broken human that is your intended audience?
How many more years until I see progress? I'm communicating with people every day at work and volunteer shit but still can't carry a conversation beyond answering the other person's questions
This is it.
It's not that I believe I have to some kind of adonis gigaChad to get a girlfriend. It's that while I do have a job, good education, good background, no criminal history, no drug history, and make a decent living, no girl gives me the time of day ANYWAY. Meanwhile I see druggies, dropouts, and literal criminals with women loyal to them, and if one falls out they can go through another 3 within a week.
It made me wonder what I was even trying so hard for, when I realized none of it actually matters. Some people are just able to connect to others emotionally, and others like me were just born without that function. So now I just work minimal hours to subsist, enjoy the simple things till it's my time to go.
>b-be social
I can be when it is rewarding or necessary, but why would I bother? I hate being around people esp. when it is more than 2-3 persons and group dynamics start to raise their ugly head.
I want a gf who feels the same, not torture myself with a fucking social life.
You know wife beaters and drug addicts don't fix shit to get laid?
>Yesterday, I saw my friend who I hadn't seen since highschool. He told me that he was in rehab for being addicted to pills, he had been to jail for disorderly conduct and that he had a baby momma plus a current girlfriend.
>You know wife beaters and drug addicts don't fix shit to get laid?
They don't want to acknowledge that most people act instinctually and aren't self concious enough to fix problems. It's funny that despite this they are able to get shit like girlfriends and social lives.
Ah yes, the assumption that anybody who is dissatisfied with life is a lazy NEET who doesn't shower or exercise.
>Lol just get a routine
>Lol just eat reuglarly
>Lol just work out
>Lol just shower
>Lol just make your bed
>lol just keep things tidy
>Lol just read
>lol keep track of your finances
>Lol just join a hobby or sports club
Yep its another empty platitude and sayism thread :D
didn't read, too much work, would rather masturbate