How do I get a gf? normies online tell me to talk to girls in public...

Do you have any friends? Do you go to parties? Do you understand human contact? You can't expect a girl to like you when you cold approach them. It's too much burden for them. You have to understand that when you cold approach someone it comes as a complete surprise for them and they most likely did not expect that. There is nothing they can do correctly in that situation except reject you kindly. You have to first get to know them a little bit. Not in a romantic or sexual way. It's easier to do if you have friends or go to parties or something and meet women there. You need something in common and talk about something. There needs to be some setting where you meet the girls.
Try to think some setting. Language classes, dancing classes, some hobby or sport or something.

You'd be shocked, my nerdy friends pretty much all drink like horses. Plus the pub is a nerd version of a club anyway. Not an insult, I hate clubs and love pubs.
You obviously know your friends better than me, but I'm saying that there are plenty of nerds who enjoy going out, so if you're merely assuming that they don't go drinking, you might be wrong.

What about dating sites? Have you tried those out? Tinder isn't for everyone, so I'd advise giving the other ones a go as well.

>Do you have any friends?
Kind of. Both live far away.
>Do you go to parties?
Wouldn't know where. Party culture seems to really not be a thing in my country, or at least not in the less metropolitan parts.
>Do you understand human contact?
What do you mean by this? What's there to understand?
>You have to understand that when you cold approach someone it comes as a complete surprise for them and they most likely did not expect that.
I know this, I just did this because I'm intent on testing every piece of advice I get that doesn't break the law.
I'm wary of trying sports or dancing due to having extremely poor physical coordination. I don't just mean clumsy, I mean skin scraped off with gravel level of bad.

>normies online tell me to talk to girls in public

You should talk to girls, but only in appropriate situations where its acceptable. Just talking to some stranger on the street is weirdand creepy.You talk to girls in situations like this for example:

-superficial aquaintances, like coworkers, people you share courses with in uni, etc
-use appropriate situations to start conversations, eg waiting in line and someones like dropping something and you hand it back to them, you're stuck waiting because your trains delayed etc
-only start conversations when the other party seems open to conversation(eg they smile at you, drop some comment about something, help you out with something etc). If someones looking at their phone the whole time they likely aren't open for conversation.

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you forgot about the first step, because you seem angry about nogf
>Live your life and focus on the good shit.

Look you just need to be more social somehow, as in be around women for them to see and talk to, like a bar or some shit. Its all good what you doing but doesn't really matter if you not hitting up women one way or another. Your efforts are general basics..it DOES help once a woman has taken interest in you, then you have something to talk about, something to work with.

If you start feeling down from nogf , go back to the first step.Change your clothes, do different hobbies,go places. You maybe desperate but try not to act it.

t: brad

Thanks. For what it's worth, I don't intend on staying in this town for long, I'm looking to move abroad this year. Even if I fail, I will have tried.

Normies aren't just telling you to talk to them in public, they're omitting a crucial detail that most robots can't seem to wrap their head around since it's typically implied. The implication is that you should go to areas where it is _socially acceptable_ to talk to women (or strangers) aka bars. The huge trick here is to desire nothing from them when engaging with them initially since your charisma stats are low. By desiring nothing from them, at least initially, you can skill grind your speech without any dependency upon the outcome of the exchange. Eventually, they will start approaching you because your demeanor will be that of cool, calm, and collected. The biggest caveat here is that if you don't live in a large city, this is incredibly difficult.
Don't bother them while they're working.

>Still though, there is never any input on their part. They just don't make it easy for me to chat with them.

Try this thought model:
* Chicks are slow to get warmed up, don't expect them to love or even like you at first sight.
* Chicks like stability. If you start pursuing or liking a chick and then suddenly drop or hate her the second she shows some resistance or apathy, that makes her feel very unsafe like you are unstable and your feelings don't have weight behind them.
* If a chick doesn't actively say "no" or actively avoid you, it means keep going I want to see more.
* Chicks like to be neutral and have plausible deniability and not have responsibility and have someone else make their choices for them - give them what they want by being comfortable being the one that likes them first and the one that's showing off for their approval.
* When you are tired of dancing and think she should be impressed now, don't slink off silently if she didn't get down on one knee and confess her undying love for you, take the risk and "ask her out" by escalating the situation. In an online chat, that would mean setting up a date. If you're on a date already, that would mean going for a hand hold or a kiss. If you've done that already, do something more.

>They do seem to want it though. They keep looking at me while they work.
"Men initiate, women invite."
Point: By "want it", that doesn't mean a woman wants to fuck you like a man would at first sight, it means she wants to see what you got, as above.

>women want nothing to do with me
Act on your want, not theirs.
Also, women want care in the form of attention and provisions. Offer/display it to entice them, but don't give it up if they don't put out for you.

>but both that I talked to ended up ghosting
Welcome to the club fren. Love is a marathon, not a sprint. Keep going!

>it doesn't work.
Clarify: Did you ask her number and she refused?

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>Clarify: Did you ask her number and she refused?
No, I got her number. A day before we were supposed to meet again, she gave me an excuse, telling me she would try messaging me back when she's able. She never did.

>Cold approach doesn't work.
I'm not even Chad and cold approach has worked for me 100% of the time. It's never blown up in my face, ever. Nowadays, I don't even approach anymore. I'm the one that's approached. Are you sure you're Chad? If you were, you'd definitely have the same level of success as me.